With my wife, and her pregnancy risk desires, this came up the VERY FIRST time she had an affair. She actually brought it up while she was admitting to me that she had been "messing around: with a guy from work and the REAL reason she was "working late Friday" was because they were going to dinner and then to a motel together!! SHe was jerking me off and sucking me, while making her admission, and she squeezed my cock really hard and bit the head and whispered "what would you think about me NOT using my diaphragm with him?" That was all I could take, and I EXPLODED in a HUGE orgasm with cum flying everywhere as she tried to ctch some of it in ehr mouth, LOLLOL.
Her diaphragm is all the birth control she uses and she was religious about using it with me. So asking if she could NOT use it with a Lover was a REAL statement on her part. We had a LONG sexy fun hot discussion about this, and decided that she would jsut play it by ear and see how ti went. She would talk to him aobut the risk and see how he felt about it. and I even managed to cum a second time!!
They had a fun hot sexy talk about this during dinner, and at the motel after, and after assuring him that she would expect nothing from him IF she got pregnant, and that she would prefer not to use her diaphragm and DEFINITELY no condoms, he simply couldn't resist!! They spent the evening lustfully begging him to knock her up and him assuting her he was DEFINITELY doing so, several times!! He ended up 2 hours late getting home, LOL!!
This became a regular part of her affairs from then on and mostly the only real "birth control" she used was to refrain from being with Lovers when she knew she was fertile. We discussed this, and decided that if she got pregnant we would have the ...... and raise it like we did our ....... There was never any question about an abortion, we both knew that was out. She has not become pregnant, mostly because she has a tipped uterus that makes it difficult for her to get pregnant (and lends to her pregnancy risk desires too). But if/when it happens, we are both excited for this and more than willing and capable of raising another .......
CW