Whats my next step to convince my wife?

[kingcymo]

I want to share my wife with a well endowed man.

We already watch porn together and she would also say the women in porn are faking the pleasure, especially when their in a scene with a well endowed male.

Ive asked if she wanted to get a dildo to spice things up. At first she said no, but after a few months she finally agreed. I asked if she wanted a bigger one she said sure why not? So we got a realistic 8 x 6 inch dildo. The first time she used it she said she it felt good however she's yet to ask me to pull it out, it's always me that asked her if she wants to use it.

Fast forward a couple monts and Its got to a point now where whenever we have sex(which is every other day) the toy comes out. She now admits it feels better than me and i dont hit the spots as good as our toy however she is still fine not using it at all and to this day, has yet to ask me to bring the toy out.


Also everytime she watches porn with me now she often comments how good a big one would feel. She also agreed with me, on multiple different things occasions, that long thick ones actually look good but before she would say eww or show a face of disgust.

Last week Ive asked her twice if she wants to find a well endowed male for her to have fun with and both times she's said no. Not sure what to do next and I respect her decision but the way she squirms and reacts to the large dildo is unlike anything I've ever seen and I know she would love the feeling of a real one that is of similar size or bigger than her dildo.

How am I suppose to get to the next step or is this the end of the road for me?

 

[Fredposer2017]

Maybe introduce a lifelike dildo into your play?

 

[thebeginner]

I want to share my wife with a well endowed man.

We already watch porn together and she would also say the women in porn are faking the pleasure, especially when their in a scene with a well endowed male.

Ive asked if she wanted to get a dildo to spice things up. At first she said no, but after a few months she finally agreed. I asked if she wanted a bigger one she said sure why not? So we got a realistic 8 x 6 inch dildo. The first time she used it she said she it felt good however she's yet to ask me to pull it out, it's always me that asked her if she wants to use it.

Fast forward a couple monts and Its got to a point now where whenever we have sex(which is every other day) the toy comes out. She now admits it feels better than me and i dont hit the spots as good as our toy however she is still fine not using it at all and to this day, has yet to ask me to bring the toy out.


Also everytime she watches porn with me now she often comments how good a big one would feel. She also agreed with me, on multiple different things occasions, that long thick ones actually look good but before she would say eww or show a face of disgust.

Last week Ive asked her twice if she wants to find a well endowed male for her to have fun with and both times she's said no. Not sure what to do next and I respect her decision but the way she squirms and reacts to the large dildo is unlike anything I've ever seen and I know she would love the feeling of a real one that is of similar size or bigger than her dildo.

How am I suppose to get to the next step or is this the end of the road for me?

Keep doing what you're doing. You've made great progress with the dildo. It often takes a lot longer than you think. Keep up the roleplaying - ask her about guys she finds attractive and would like to fuck. It could be a coworker, friend, a celebrity, or a guy in a porno who she finds very hot.

The next time you're using the dildo, you'll want her to associate the dildo with whoever she has the hots for. Get her thinking about him while using the dildo. Even name it after him.

When she's hot and wet and your using the dildo on her, dirty talk with her. For example:

Oh, you're really enjoying Mike's big cock aren't you babe?
Do you like Mike's big cock babe? He fucks you so good, doesn't he?

It may sound weird but the more you do it, the more she will associate the dildo with the real thing. After a while she will start to crave wanting that real cock inside her. She will gradually become more comfortable with the idea of being with another guy. It won't seem scary or impossible. And she will realize that it's something that you also really want. With enough time she will feel that she needs it and is doing it not only for her but for you as well.

 

[mikewannacuck]

Get a dildo that is sized like you. Mount it to a bed for her to suck on it.
While she is doing that fuck her from behind with the large cock in a strap-on harness.
Then while you do that verbalize the connection. Refer to the one she is sucking as you, "that it babe, take my cock all the way in your mouth".
For the strap-on don't refer to it by another name, just refer to it neutrally.
"How do you like this big cock, you love getting fucked by a big cock don't you" etc.

An important part of fantasy play is that you need to leave space for them to fantasize in the details to make it real to them.
Many make the mistake and paint the picture too clearly. This prevents the other person from truly embracing it since they aren't filling in details emotionally, but are just trying to remember the script.

Tell me how it goes.