Early 50s here. We've been doing mfm with a guy we know for a while. 2 or 3 times a month but has been more and less often. It's a regular deal for us now, we know what to expect we look forward to his visits and it's relaxing sexy fun. It's not cuck at all. We have dabbled with others a few times, some were good some weren't. Other than one of my wife's married coworkers no one knows and we don't want anyone to find out. We're not swingers at all. We are conservative and pretty quiet.
Since we started our sexy fun our sex life was OK but boring. Now she horny all the time, we have a lot more sex and it's good sex. Wife dresses sexy but very classy, not slutty. She's lost 25 lbs, probably form all the sex, I've lost 15.
So....others into this....are you wild? Mild? Open about it? Is it a secret? You do it at home? Motel?