The first night I met my ex, we were at an upscale nightclub in the western suburbs of Chicago. While her and I were talking, she was also talking to a guy that was on the other side of her. She was basically going back and forth between the two of us. A little bit later another guy, who was really ...... I might add, that she had once dated, or occasionally fucked, came up to her and was pissed off and started calling her names. He was saying that she was a slut and a whore, etc.. it was getting so nasty that I decided I had to get between them and in his face. He thought he was some kind of tough guy, but I’m a real fighter. I think he must have realized it and so when I told him to fuck off and get the fuck away from her, him and his friends took off. Based on what little she told me about him, and what all he was saying, I began to get the feeling that everything he had said was possibly true. Well this only attracted me to her even more! After a little while, she ended up giving her number to the other guy she was talking to and asked me to go upstairs with her. I followed her and took notice of how many guys she knew and noticed the way in which they would interact with her, like kissing and touching her and how she had no problems with them at all. She introduced me to a lot of people and at one point, her and another hot girl started out dancing really sexy, followed up with them kissing and touching each other all over. She was wearing a short tight skirt and the next thing I know, she’s at the very end of the bar in a fairly darkened area, and surrounded by a decent group of people, men and women alike. Then she gets lifted up on the bar counter and she lays down on her back and people start doing body shots off her exposed navel. I’m just watching all this happen and I’m absolutely loving it and am so turned on! This is my kind of girl!! The next night we went out was without a doubt, the icing on the cake, but that very first night was when I knew!! When did you know??