What life experiences led you to share your Wife?

My wife slept with one of my friends after a party. To this day, she is unaware that I know about this. I was highly suspicious that this had happened when she came home in the early hours (actually very late early hours if that makes sense), then was able to confirm it later on in the morning when she went out (probably to get the morning after pill, I believe). Therefore, for several hours it had been on my mind and, to my shock, I was so incredibly turned on by the thought of her fucking another man. This really came out if the blue, but made me realise what a turn on it was.

This was the start of a very long and gradual process - probably about 12 years - during which we developed fantasies that eventually led to the real thing.

I wonder lots of different thoughts and emotions had crossed and clashed in your mind.

Really hot to know it turned out great for you both!

In the beggining you also felt a hint of jealousy or it was pure lust?
 
I wonder lots of different thoughts and emotions had crossed and clashed in your mind.

Really hot to know it turned out great for you both!

In the beggining you also felt a hint of jealousy or it was pure lust?
I was a little frightened at first, frankly. I didn’t - and don’t - want to lose her. She is adorable and I was initially worried. But I quickly rationalised things in my mind and came to a swift conclusion that this was not a relationship forming and our marriage was not under threat.
 
Our adventures started as fantasy, in our late teens early 20's we both loved sex and pushed many boundaries. Our door nudity then sex in risky places. We even ventured in to daylight sex in our car. To be honest I licked, caressed fucked and fingered her for hours until she came. During in a drunken fumble I whispered in her ear how I'd love to dp her. Her pussy flooded and she came hard almost instantly. I repeated these words on several occasions and again she was soppng wet. She always insisted we stuck with the fantasy but months later we stayed over at my mates and I set things in motion. She dived on my mate and we had an amazing night. We played lots for the next few years with a couple we know. We had a blast.
Things got a little heavy with our lives and jobs after this making fun the last thought.
We hit a massive lul and our sex lifes took a huge hit.
I took a job at her place for a while as my work dried up. He place had lots of nights out and I went several times before I took a new job elsewhere.

The lul continued but we seemed ok, well I thought we were. Another night out came allegedly girls only but it wasn't. She arrived home looking like shit at 5.30 in the morning. Turns out a married guys wife had gone away so he spent the night fucking mine. We rowed for months as she denied it but eventually she told the truth. Weirdly it helped us, we chatted built bridges and talked openly. I told her I needed to know what happened, everything.

Reluctantly she started from the beginning. My cock throbbed so hard, all jealous thoughts had gone. We romped hard all weekend and sex was dirty. I brought more of my friends home every few weeks after this. Then we joined a site and started with strangers. The only person I want to see fuck her now though is her old work colleague.
 
As mentioned in response to questions like this elsewhere...

How did we start? It was incredibly sexy, soooooo hottt, and suuuuuch a turn on!!! But our first time wasn't like a lot of the others. There wasn't any hinting or apprehension about what to say. It was more like lightning had struck that night...

For years I had searched for whatever it might be that my shy wife might enjoy in terms of sex. She was painfully withdrawn about such things. No talk of fantasies or other such openness. Her seeming lack of desire and disinterest in sex actually put a big strain on our marriage. But one night, much to my surprise and joy, she was loosened up enough to reveal herself to me. From the start of that moment, to being shared, took only a couple hours for my hotwife to appear.

It was a regular week night. Me, my buddy, and my petite wife had all been in the living room listening to music and casually talking over a few beers and more in the late '80's. In the course of our conversation, he told a story about how he was involved in a threesome some years ago in college.

Later on that same evening, we went out to the hot tub. After a while, when he got out to get a drink and make a pit stop, she told me, "His story really turned me on." She was clearly loosened up, and I quickly responded with an approving "Mmmmmmmm!" In only a matter of seconds, I was slipping my hard dick into her and quickly gave her a good filling.

By the time my buddy came back to the tub, she was already filled with my cum. He had barely sat down and I lifted her bottom up to where her pussy was above water and said, "Ok, I just got done. Now it's your turn." She, somewhat shocked, asked, "Are you sure? Are you sure you want to do this?" I said, "Absolutely!".

I had her balanced in my hands, floating in the water with her pussy easily visible. Her arm around my neck, my left hand under her shoulders, my right hand under the small of her back. He got down in the water, positioned his face between her spread legs, and started to eat her as I held her in place. I cautioned him about her just being filled with my cum, but he continued to tease her clit and maybe even savor a bit of my remnant. She was cooing her pleasure when he stood up, positioned his hips between her legs, and slid into her VERY ready and willing pussy.

He didn't last long, and when he took his seat again, we all sat there, in a sort of pleasurable shock about how exciting the last couple of minutes actually were. Within 5 minutes, she said, "I want to do that again", and went over to stand next to him in the tub and asked, "How long has it been since you had a blow job?" Before he could even respond, she was already sucking on him as she leaned over, got him just a little hard, and moved her ass to press against him and reached down between her legs to stuff him into her pussy. Sadly, he couldn't muster the erection, and our evening came to a close shortly after.

And that's how it started, and why for us, it took only a couple of hours, if even that, to start our hotwife life.

JR
 
Our adventures started as fantasy, in our late teens early 20's we both loved sex and pushed many boundaries. Our door nudity then sex in risky places. We even ventured in to daylight sex in our car. To be honest I licked, caressed fucked and fingered her for hours until she came. During in a drunken fumble I whispered in her ear how I'd love to dp her. Her pussy flooded and she came hard almost instantly. I repeated these words on several occasions and again she was soppng wet. She always insisted we stuck with the fantasy but months later we stayed over at my mates and I set things in motion. She dived on my mate and we had an amazing night. We played lots for the next few years with a couple we know. We had a blast.
Things got a little heavy with our lives and jobs after this making fun the last thought.
We hit a massive lul and our sex lifes took a huge hit.
I took a job at her place for a while as my work dried up. He place had lots of nights out and I went several times before I took a new job elsewhere.

The lul continued but we seemed ok, well I thought we were. Another night out came allegedly girls only but it wasn't. She arrived home looking like shit at 5.30 in the morning. Turns out a married guys wife had gone away so he spent the night fucking mine. We rowed for months as she denied it but eventually she told the truth. Weirdly it helped us, we chatted built bridges and talked openly. I told her I needed to know what happened, everything.

Reluctantly she started from the beginning. My cock throbbed so hard, all jealous thoughts had gone. We romped hard all weekend and sex was dirty. I brought more of my friends home every few weeks after this. Then we joined a site and started with strangers. The only person I want to see fuck her now though is her old work colleague.

It seems a very intense journey you both had!

We also had to dealt with the expactations after wife slipped and cheated on me. Well, in that moment we faced it as a betrayal but fortunately the episode served us to be open about our wishes and sex drives. It seems that night out and the aftermath might had a similar impacto for you and your wife as well.
 
As mentioned in response to questions like this elsewhere...

How did we start? It was incredibly sexy, soooooo hottt, and suuuuuch a turn on!!! But our first time wasn't like a lot of the others. There wasn't any hinting or apprehension about what to say. It was more like lightning had struck that night...

For years I had searched for whatever it might be that my shy wife might enjoy in terms of sex. She was painfully withdrawn about such things. No talk of fantasies or other such openness. Her seeming lack of desire and disinterest in sex actually put a big strain on our marriage. But one night, much to my surprise and joy, she was loosened up enough to reveal herself to me. From the start of that moment, to being shared, took only a couple hours for my hotwife to appear.

It was a regular week night. Me, my buddy, and my petite wife had all been in the living room listening to music and casually talking over a few beers and more in the late '80's. In the course of our conversation, he told a story about how he was involved in a threesome some years ago in college.

Later on that same evening, we went out to the hot tub. After a while, when he got out to get a drink and make a pit stop, she told me, "His story really turned me on." She was clearly loosened up, and I quickly responded with an approving "Mmmmmmmm!" In only a matter of seconds, I was slipping my hard dick into her and quickly gave her a good filling.

By the time my buddy came back to the tub, she was already filled with my cum. He had barely sat down and I lifted her bottom up to where her pussy was above water and said, "Ok, I just got done. Now it's your turn." She, somewhat shocked, asked, "Are you sure? Are you sure you want to do this?" I said, "Absolutely!".

I had her balanced in my hands, floating in the water with her pussy easily visible. Her arm around my neck, my left hand under her shoulders, my right hand under the small of her back. He got down in the water, positioned his face between her spread legs, and started to eat her as I held her in place. I cautioned him about her just being filled with my cum, but he continued to tease her clit and maybe even savor a bit of my remnant. She was cooing her pleasure when he stood up, positioned his hips between her legs, and slid into her VERY ready and willing pussy.

He didn't last long, and when he took his seat again, we all sat there, in a sort of pleasurable shock about how exciting the last couple of minutes actually were. Within 5 minutes, she said, "I want to do that again", and went over to stand next to him in the tub and asked, "How long has it been since you had a blow job?" Before he could even respond, she was already sucking on him as she leaned over, got him just a little hard, and moved her ass to press against him and reached down between her legs to stuff him into her pussy. Sadly, he couldn't muster the erection, and our evening came to a close shortly after.

And that's how it started, and why for us, it took only a couple of hours, if even that, to start our hotwife life.

JR

Quite thrilling! So hot that you shared this memory.

When you were searching and thinking about what your lady might be attracted to or what were her kinks, did you used to got yourself excited about any ideas of sharing her to other men?
 
Quite thrilling! So hot that you shared this memory.

When you were searching and thinking about what your lady might be attracted to or what were her kinks, did you used to got yourself excited about any ideas of sharing her to other men?
Not that I can specifically remember. Frankly, I was about at the end of my rope when she quite shockingly to me revealed that she got turned on by his story. Prior to that night, we'd had many, fruitless discussions about sex. I had even cheated on her to satisfy my drive. Now, I always tell her she's my favorite porn star!!!
 
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The main thing for me was when my now-wife and I broke before getting engaged... because I couldn't commit. We were apart for as few months before we finally got back together and I proposed. During that time I was wracked with jealousy, every Saturday thinking about how my horny ex was no doubt getting fucked at that very moment. What was quite surprisingly to me at the time and will of course not be a surprise to anyone here - along with feeling sick about it, I also got hard... and then you can imagine how I dealt with these feelings.

When we got back together, she said she went on a couple dates but nothing happened other than a goodnight kiss. I knew that was absolute bullshit but I let it slide as I was just happy to be back with her.

Years later, after some drinks, she finally admitted that she had danced and made out with a dude at a club, and then dated another guy for a couple months - in fact, right up until the night I proposed to her, after which we had sex, she slept over, then she broke up with the boyfriend the next morning (so technically she cheated on him with me... lol). The best part is she told him she was going to meet me and he begged her not to, so he basically got to watch himself get cucked. She didn't give much detail other than to admit they fucked enough times that she can't remember how many.

A while later, I finally got her to admit, as I suspected, that she also fucked the dude she met at the club. I admittededly have masturbated a number of times thinking about my horny wife grinding up on some stranger in a club, then going back to his place to get fucked.
 
With my ex-wife, it all started with her. She wanted to have sex with this guy that we both knew and she wanted me to be there for a 3-some. Ever since, I liked watching her being treated to sex. She has always had a big want for sex, and it could get rough and kinky. The only reason I divorced her was her lying about other things.
 
I don’t think anything has to happen for men to want to share their wives or live in the lifestyle we live. We simply love sex and want our partner to be happy. When I’m happy my husband is happy. If that happiness comes from his cock or others it doesn’t matter. When my husband is satisfied after fucking another woman I’m happy. I do get the best end of it. I get to fuck so many more men than he does women. He’s happy with that.
I had the experience of being cheated on a few occasions, and without knowing, and I came harder, and wanted her again and again, which later turned out she had been cheated the same day or day before. It brought something unknown to surface without knowing, or knowing for sure. The jealousy triggers something as well, and in later years there is no porn, that really turns me on, except wife sharing. I'm not thinking of myself as a cuckold, and I also have fantasies about other wifes to, always mature ladies, but that is something my wife does not accept as a fantasy when together. She is the queen, and the only queen in our roleplay
 
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I guess for me it was watching all those porn movies involving 3somes, it looked so much more fun, the first time for me was with my ex-wife and her best friend, we were always going out partying together so eventually it led to us sharing the bedroom too, after getting divorced I met my first girlfriend, she was hot and with a high sex drive, she was the first one I started sharing with other guys,

When I met my wife we were both in the army and sex with others was a common thing, from the time we got married til now we've been enjoying 3somes and also fuck on our own.
 
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The main thing for me was when my now-wife and I broke before getting engaged... because I couldn't commit. We were apart for as few months before we finally got back together and I proposed. During that time I was wracked with jealousy, every Saturday thinking about how my horny ex was no doubt getting fucked at that very moment. What was quite surprisingly to me at the time and will of course not be a surprise to anyone here - along with feeling sick about it, I also got hard... and then you can imagine how I dealt with these feelings.

When we got back together, she said she went on a couple dates but nothing happened other than a goodnight kiss. I knew that was absolute bullshit but I let it slide as I was just happy to be back with her.

Years later, after some drinks, she finally admitted that she had danced and made out with a dude at a club, and then dated another guy for a couple months - in fact, right up until the night I proposed to her, after which we had sex, she slept over, then she broke up with the boyfriend the next morning (so technically she cheated on him with me... lol). The best part is she told him she was going to meet me and he begged her not to, so he basically got to watch himself get cucked. She didn't give much detail other than to admit they fucked enough times that she can't remember how many.

A while later, I finally got her to admit, as I suspected, that she also fucked the dude she met at the club. I admittededly have masturbated a number of times thinking about my horny wife grinding up on some stranger in a club, then going back to his place to get fucked.

It's so hot whenever we get the chance to unveil hidden sexcapades they had before or even while with us.

I totally understand your conflict between jealousy and feeling horny and hard about that prospect. We faced similar emotions many times.
 
I got interested in this years before I met my wife. When I was younger, I was always interested in the females I knew that would put it about a bit.

Me and my brother had a party in our house back in 1992. We invited loads of people we knew. As the night grew and the drinks flowed, I noticed one of our female friends on my brothers bed with one of our other male friends. At the time I was kissing a girl but all we did that night was kiss, nothing else. Whilst we were kissing I kept looking over to the two that were on my brothers bed, I basically ended up watching them fuck which was hot.

A year or so later, my younger brother’s friend invited me and my brother round his house for a small party as his parents were out. He had an older sister and I had always fancied her. Id heard rumours about her that she’d been with a few guys I knew. As the party went on I innocently asked to use the toilet. My actual question was “where’s the toilet” his sister looked at me, opened her mouth and pointed inside it and said “in here”. I can honestly say that I didn’t know what to say to her so I just carried on not knowing what to do or say even though I knew what she meant.

A few weeks later, my brothers friend came to our house with his older sister. We ended up drinking together and joking about. I went into our kitchen and she followed me. We were flirting with each other and shared a kiss.

Two days later, she came back alone. I remember that I was painting my room at the time and she said she’d help. One thing lead to another and I ended up just licking her out which was the first time I had done this. We had to stop as my brother and her brother came back to the house.

The next time we got together she gave me my first BJ and I licked her out again. I desperately wanted to see her again after this.

A few days went by and i hadn’t heard from her. A friend of mine told me that he’d heard that she was seen in a park giving someone a BJ. My mind was racing with jealousy but at the same time it turned me on. We ended up in a 2 year relationship after this.
 
It seems a very intense journey you both had!

We also had to dealt with the expactations after wife slipped and cheated on me. Well, in that moment we faced it as a betrayal but fortunately the episode served us to be open about our wishes and sex drives. It seems that night out and the aftermath might had a similar impacto for you and your wife as well.
It did to be honest, we'd kind of started taking each other for granted. Two very different things love and sex. You can have loving sex with your life partner but you can also enjoy fun sex too. We went out recently and the guy in question was in the same pub. Turns out he's moved to our area.
 
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Definitely not trying to play Freud or Sherlock here, but I still find myself intrigued by the desires or motives that led me to agree and then to enjoy sharing my wife with other men.

Trying to deepening a bit in my case, there are some facts or thoughts which might had caused some influence:

My mother was a very good manered and seemingly conservative person. But in the past while my father and her stayed separated for 1 year or so, I noticed she was having an sexual affair with a strange man. Very late at night she used to drag him upstairs to bang. And I kinda got excited about this; I always appreciated porn but I never saw myself as man with such extroverted personality or disinhibition. Then I never saw myself as a Dirk Diggler but as a Jack Horner guy or maybe a voyeur; I also felt very conflicted between jealousy and a more libertine or open liberal view of world and sex. I am twisted by those notions; My wife is both conservative and slutty in her own ways and finally recognizing that was to pull a trigger.

What about yourselves? We would love to hear about!

And a wife's picture because now we are certainly exhibitionits and voyeurs:
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Wow lovely ass and that pussy damm I like it but cheeks look big
 
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