Early 50s here....we do mfm with a guy we know about 3 times a month. We're normal has hell, not swingers all.
1st time... about 4 years ago, hot tub, drinking, end up naked, me, wife and him. Naked in hot tub has happened before.
...... we go into the house, we're all still naked, he does her over thr back of the couch. Took about 3 min, he leaves. Wife is like what dud she just do, she's crying, takes a shower, we go to bed. Lay there awake but don't say anything. She cried and apologized for 3 days. I had same...what did she do?...feelings.
The first time we had sex after that night she fucked the hell out if me. Great sex for a long time after.
He's a semi friend we'd invite to BBQ when we'd have a small gathering with others, he's the UPS guy at her office.
About 4 months later she tells me he talked to her at work, she'd been avoiding him. Her and I talk about it how it was a mistake and won't happen again.
We're planning another BBQ I said she should invite him, she's like no way. We're all adults, he's apologized(??), it's all good. She tells me he'll join us.
Similar to first time, us, 3 other cpls, 2 guys. Everyone's gone but us, another cpl and him. Wife and I cleaning up. Other cpl and him in hot tub. Wife and I join. Drinking the girls take tops off, has happened before. Soon we're all naked, has happened before, no big deal. Other couple leaves. He soon says he's gotta go, we all walk into the house naked. Wife throws on my button shirt leaving it unbuttoned. We're chatting awkwardly he starts to get hard, soon full hard, then I'm hard. He apologized for last time again, says he's gotta go. I say its all cool, he says thanks. We're ...... and in the kitchen. It gets real quiet, wife looks at me, looks at him, she suckes his dick for 15 seconds, she turns around he fucks her, whole thing is over in 4 min, he leaves. Wife crying and apologized over and over. She takes a shower. In bed, awkward and quiet. She says she's sorry, we snuggle. I end up fucking her 3 times.
Next bbq, same deal....friends leave, he's helping clean up, it's pretty quiet, we all know what's going on. In the living room she kisses me then kisses him, she's sucks his dick for a min, she climbs onto him. They go for maybe 10 min, he finishes and leaves. She takes a shower, gets into bed and we go at it.
Yea it's weird I feel jealous, her and I both have regrets, again we say not gonna happen again.
Same deal happend 2 more times but he'd stay and watch me do her. Next visit, just us and him for bbq, we all know....but didn't say anything....wife and I never discussed this at all only to say we'd not do it again.
This time we're all pretty relaxed in the hot tub. We go into the house, wife gulps down a shot of tequila, we visit in the kitchen, he gets hard, I do too. Wife kisses me whispered in my ear if its OK. We're all still naked. We go up to bedroom, some kissing they do the deed, he leaves. 20 min if that. She asks if she should shower saying we just got out of the hot tub. We never shower after hot tub befor bed. She says she's gonna wipe off....THAT was sexy and I was HARD. We f-ed 3 times then again in the morning.
Got to be a monthly thing.
I still feel weird, jealous, have strange thoughts but I'm so turned on. Wife says exact same. But we keep doing it.
We're conservative as hell, wife classy like you can belive, we don't smoke, don't swear, we can carry on a conversation, we don't have tattoos. When we do this it's like she's a totally different woman. She's a sex machine, we do her till we can't go any more and she's WAY into it. Next day she's back to normal.
First time, every time ... still it's like what the hell are we doing???