Red Rooster has been completely remodeled downstairs and is pretty nice now. The play rooms are nice as well. The original owners both passed away but the entire lifestyle community owes them a huge debt of gratitude for fighting "city hall and the system". They paved the way. That said, we don't attend often because there are normally not that many couples or single guys of the type we are interested in there. Sometimes there are, but that's kind of the way the lifestyle goes. We do go once in awhile because everybody has heard of it and new lifestyle couples will go there first. We have met some hot newbie couples and been their first lifestyle experience.
RR can be intimidating because of all of the single guys around. Not the quality type for the most part but lurkers who can make the unseasoned creeped out. You can always go upstairs where it is couples only. I (Mrs) like to dance downstairs though and as you can imagine if you have followed us very long...I don't tend to get intimidated by guys. I will say what's on my mind. The facility now is BLESSEDLY NO SMOKING now. Outdoors only! ...... on cigarette smoke has always been a huge negative about attending RR.
The biggest factor is confidence. Also the ability to nicely say NO whenever you wish. We have never been pushed after saying no to a guy. As OldAsian stated, there is much to watch and sample in RR. Just don't hide in the corner, don't be afraid to dance and chat. Walk up to a couple or guy you are interested in and introduce yourselves, tell them you are new here and want to ask them some questions. Even if you aren't interested in playing with most people they are still fun and friendly for the most part.
We DO NOT recommend the Mandalay Bay parties. Overpriced, a bit cliquish, often slow and no place to play. If you want to play then there is a place elsewhere, but that time between leaving the party and arriving a play place is the time when the reluctant make the decision to pass rather than go for it.
Green Door is awful. Touristy single guys who are the worst about creeping. Your best bet is to stick with seasoned lifestyle guys who already know the expectations rather than tourists who are just looking to get laid and know nothing of how the lifestyle works.
Post a pic or PM one and any questions. We might be able to help further if we are all comfortable. There are other options around the Vegas area.