What’s your origin story?

What’s up everybody? I am absolutely fascinated by hearing other peoples origin story about the cockling lifestyle. And I had a guy ask me how do you even get into this and I wanted to kind of share my origins story but see if anybody else had a very similar one to me. So for starters I was the fucking typical awkward fat kid author high school so I got absolutely no pussy so a lot of my sex life was back in those days jerking off to people on phone sex chat lines and a girl chubby girl who on her own would frequent adult movie theaters so my first initiation into sack was getting a blowjob and a porn theater, which quickly spiral to having men suck my dick at a porn theater, and ultimately me trying to suck a cock as well. so find out what happens in adult theaters and bookstores. I decided to get a job in a porn theater and then open my eyes for the first time ever I had seen couples come in and literally just watch a guys wife get gang fucked by a room, full of creepy old people , but definitely changed my perspective on what a marriage and a relationship could be. When I was around 19 or 20 the adult theater that I worked at was bought by a black guy who would often throw interracial parties on the weekends. He would call them VIP parties he would charge 20 bucks. Bring out some shitty liquor and then invite three or four married white couples in Anna whole bunch of black guys and , basically I would watch a BBC gangbang go down and talk to the husband. None of these guys were miserable. All of them were turned on and their wives were walking out of this place at four in the morning with a smile plastered across their face. Ever since then I have sort of fantasized Scheme on any woman I could as to how to get into the lifestyle until finally met the right girl lol. How did everybody else get into this? If you wouldn’t mind sharing your story I am truly curious.
 
My wife was a Filipina maid in Hong Kong when I met her. She also worked part-time as an escort, taking care of western business travellers and tourists. We worked out that she'd probably sucked off or fucked more than 100 cocks by the time I met her. For a while when we started dating she continued to take care of her customers and I accepted it. I remember asking myself back then why I accepted that she kept fucking other guys for money while we were dating. I even realised that I got a kick out of it, especially when I managed to coax out of her how the recent night had gone. I even started picking her up afterwards, either same night or in the morning if he paid for an all night session. She preferred those because they paid more and got to sleep after a work out.

Anyway, that stopped after we got married and the family grew...... and my income was enough. However, I am 20 years older than her and gradually my performance started to wain, so that I managed to fuck her much less frequently and they were getting less energetic and satisfying for her, I could tell. And then I remembered the old days and it excited me. So I asked her if she like to kind of start seeing other guys again, but not for money. She cautiously agreed and we never looked back. These days she has a regular group of about six expat bulls here (Manila) who regularly give her pussy a work out and she also gets to fuck maybe another 6 visitors whom we have got to know pretty well as friends. Overall I'd estimate she gets cock most weekends and mid-week too - about 3-4 nights each week. Sometimes we indulge the past and we'll go to pick-up club to find a lucky dude, usually younger. Sometimes he will even assume she's a hooker and leaves a tip - we totally love that.
 
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Weve been together over 15yrs, married 10. Id been into men since God I was 13 or 14. Finally came out to her, but told her I was still in love with her and she said she still loved me but wasnt sure it worked. That's when I suggested her cuckolding me, she was surprised but we had experimented with single guys and other couples joining us when we were dating and on our honeymoon, so she decided to see if this could actually work.

The first time we "played together" after I came out I actually invited a black guy I used to work with over for drinks and for her to get to know him and see what could happen.

She was nervous because she didn't know ahead of time. Her and I were sitting in our hot tub naked, when he came to the backyard. She tried covering up. I told her to relax and told him to join us. He stripped and once she saw his huge cock I saw her eyes get big and have dropped i knew it was going to be all good.
 
For Jennifer and I our origin story began over 30 years ago when she was in her early 20’s. Jennifer and I was her first. After the first time, I realized she loves to spread her legs. We had been dating a little over five months. While we weren’t engaged even the most casual acquaintance could tell we were a couple.

It was August and we were at a party thrown by her best friend Brandy. Brandy’s parents lived in mansion in Buckhead and they were away for the summer – leaving Brandy the keys. At the part we met Mark, a handsome well mannered man who wasn’t part of our normal circle. Mark was a Captain in the US Army and was attending Emory University for his master’s degree. It was quite obvious they were both really attracted to each other the moment they met. After she had a drink or two I encouraged her to go ask Mark to dance. They danced three slow songs together -- the entire time Jennifer holding him tight. When she came back to me I could tell she was ready to spread her legs. I remember saying to Jennifer “Now’s your chance to fuck him.” Her response was that we were dating now, and it wouldn’t be right. I responded, “No reason you can’t have both.” Jennifer’s eyes widened and smile crossed here face. She took me and Mark by the hand and quietly led us to the study in the other wing of the house. She began deeply kissing Mark, he looked at me and I smiled and nodded.

We moved the small sofa in the study and with Jennifer in the middle we both began kissing her. After a bit of kissing I pulled off Jennifers shirt and removed her bra. Mark immediately began kissing and fondling her breasts. I dropped between her legs, unzipped her shorts and pulled them and her panties off. I buried me mouth in her hot wet pussy. Mark undressed and traded spots with me, once I was undressed we pulled Jennifer to the carpet where Mark and Jennifer began to 69 each other. She rolled on to her back, spread her legs and whispered to Mark “fuck me.” Luckily, I was in a position to see Mark slide his hard cock into her hot wet pussy. After having a couple of O’s while missionary, Jennifer mounted Mark’s cock and began to ride him. I stood next to Jennifer and fed my cock to her. All three of us came in rapid succession after that and in minutes afterword she lay between us and kissed us both as we fingered her cum filled pussy.

As we were driving back to my apartment Jennifer looked at me and said “I want to do that again.” Now 30 plus years later we are still “doing it again.”
 
I have posted this before, so this is the abridged version...

Married when I was 23 and she was 19. She was raised religious so no sex before marriage. On our wedding night she was visibly displeased with my size. When we finally had sex it only lasted a minute or two then she made me stop and went in the bathroom and told me to "finish up" and she would come out after.

Over the next 3.5 months we only had sex 9 or 10 times and she always stopped me after a minute or so and left the room while I jerked off.

At 4 months married we were arguing a lot and I knew she was sexually unhappy. She brought up divorce and I asked her if it was because of my size and she admitted it was the problem. She said she loved me but couldn't stand the thought of sex with me much less letting me get her pregnant.

I suggested she sleep with someone else and she refused and mentioned it being wrong. Then I pointed it that if she divorced me she was going to sleep with someone else anyway, so why not try it and see if it resolved anything. She agreed my logic made sense, but was reluctant to do it. The next day she informed me she wanted to try it and after agreeing to invite my best friend to be "the guy" I called him, explained the situation and invited him over for dinner. Not surprising at all, he loved the idea of fucking my 19-year-old wife lol

That night went fantastic. She loved it. He gave her her first orgasm and let him cum in her. After that he was over almost every day fucking her and stayed the night with her a lot.
 
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When we married, I was 50, my wife was 38. She'd only been with her ex, I'd been married a couple times, and had more sex partners than she had. She was 'very' conservative, sexually - swinging was something "she'd never do".
Fast forward 8 years, and we'd visited some 'family type' nude resorts. Then we went to Hedo. Met a couple there, we all got along. Saw them there on our 2nd visit, and we all four ended up in the bed.
Actually, started out with me and my wife and the other husband. Suffice to say, my wife took to another cock like 'a duck takes to water'. His wife joined us, and we had some great fun. A favorite memory and vision is of my wife on her back, the other husband over her while she sucked his cock and balls. His wife was lying on her stomach, her face buried in my wifes pussy, while I fucked his wife from behind. What a sight!
Anyhows, after we finished, my wife sat up, exclaimed "That was fun, I want to do it again". And we have.
 
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My wife was in the military and was deployed. I was staying at home and taking care of the kids. I was down and started thinking she was having sex with other men while gone. The fantasy continues to grow and then one night while a little drunk, I told her the fantasy. I thought she was mad and I dropped it. A few months later on my birthday we went out to eat when I got home from work. While waiting for our food, my wife hands me her phone and tells me to look at the last picture discreetly. So I hold her phone under the table and look. It was a mirror selfie. She was standing next to a man and they were both naked (I could see the tops of her thigh highs). I looked up at her and she told me my birthday present was my fantasy coming true. So many questions raced through my mind but all I asked her was if she had enjoyed herself. She reluctantly said yes and I told her good and we finished dinner. So the last picture I have of my wife while not a cuckold is her standing with another man and they are both naked.
 
I swapped partners with my first wife but the real fun began with my ex girlfried inbetween wife number 2 and 3. We had a long distance relationship 3 hours away and would fuck like jackrabbits on the weekends whenever we met. It was her idea to try and find another couple but the other woman would always back out until I finally told her I was ok with letting her fuck another guy. The first guy we hooked up with was lame and couldnt get it up so I dont count that. But then there was the guy from MIlwaukee, where we often fucked for the weekend.
We decided to fuck via ... for this guy while he jerked off and in doing so, my ex was constantly flirting with him so i suggested "for that why dont you just fuck him?" She closed her laptop and asked if i was serious and being half drunk i told her if she can get him to come over to our room within the hour, she can do whatever she wanted with him, but if not then I could stick it in her ass. 45 min later there was a knock on the door
There is more to this story, if you want to hear rest pm me
 
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My wife’s (girlfriend at the time) was screwing my hung roommate. When I caught them, she was cumming so hard that I realized I’d never truly given her an orgasm.
I was so turned on listening to her cum on his cock that I couldn’t bring myself to stop them. Left them alone all the time after that.
Confessed to her years later and now we have a bull who screws her better than any man ever has.
 
I love this topic, the different ways we discover this is what we want. Here's mine:

About 2 years after we were married, I dropped my wife off at a pub, then went around the block to park the car, got involved in a big car accident, and didn't end up getting to the pub for 2 hours. She thought I had abandoned her (Which to be fair, was something I had joked about doing previously) so with the mixture of drink and anger at me, the desire to teach me a lesson got the better of her. When I finally arrived, she was already in a deep embrace with a guy with his hands up her skirt and inside her top. I was probably more surprised than anyone, that instead of getting angry or jealous, I just got plan horny. I watched her for about an hour before going home for a wank. She got home about 2am.

Next morning, we didn't get out of bed until 3pm and spent most of the day having the best sex ever. That was the moment I knew this was how I wanted it to be after that, and we've never looked back since. Although, for the record, it did take me a about 18 months to get her to agree to a repeat, but after that, there was really no stopping her.

It's funny how we all get into this lifestyle. The fact that we did it completely by accident, often makes me wonder how things might otherwise have turned out if that clown hadn't jumped a red light that night.