Older: 11 years but she was a young teenager and he was in his mid 20’s it was scandalous and she kept the relationship hidden until he finally ended it. However they would do again 25 years later and still do.
Younger: 11 years he was supposedly 21 she was 32 but we’re pretty certain he was in the hotel bar with fake ID and more like 18 or 19. He tried hitting on my wife and failed miserably but when he realized she was married and I was there he switched to just talking and telling us how he’s not very good at picking up girls his own age and thought he would try for older women. When we went to our hot tub room my wife suggested making his dream come true and I went to the bar and invited him up to the room. It’s a night I’m sure he’s never forgotten.