Okay maybe a poor choice of titles but anyone involved in any of the various non-monogamous lifestyles has probable ran into some people with interesting takes on it, rules, ways to play etc..
We certainly have
From the couple we met at a swing party who after some chat, drinks and dancing we got down to talking about what each or our rules/guidelines were.. Always a good idea to get everyone on same page.. The make half informed us that the girls could play with each other and with him but he did not like guys abd his wife doing anything sexual.. It was a deal breaker.. I mean the expectation that he could fuck Mary but his wife was off limits........no thanks..
Or the couple with the no kidding rule, which is common but the wife was well known for loving to eat ass......male and female.. Pro tip, having one woman suck you off while another tongues your ass........very nice.. N..
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Or the couple we met and became friends with but not playmates, she even ended up working with my wife's company.. He was a cop about 20 years older than his wife.. They had met when he saved her from being raped by two guys in a park.. The did some swinging but what they really loved was her being put in what at best could be described as awkward or risky to down right dangerous situations.. Whether it was going out to bars alone and going back to randoms places , to going into an adult movie theater alone, to he even sent her to spring break with a suit case, enough cash for taxi to and from airport and a couple of meals.. She was expected to find someone who would let her stay with them for whatever they wanted from her.. And in the early cell phone days she let a couple of fear boys pick her up at a bar take her back to their frat house and tie her up for their use........well it ended up a few more guys and women took turns on her while others watched well into daylight the next day with the husband having no idea where she was.. They both said it was one of their favorite "adventures"
We certainly have
From the couple we met at a swing party who after some chat, drinks and dancing we got down to talking about what each or our rules/guidelines were.. Always a good idea to get everyone on same page.. The make half informed us that the girls could play with each other and with him but he did not like guys abd his wife doing anything sexual.. It was a deal breaker.. I mean the expectation that he could fuck Mary but his wife was off limits........no thanks..
Or the couple with the no kidding rule, which is common but the wife was well known for loving to eat ass......male and female.. Pro tip, having one woman suck you off while another tongues your ass........very nice.. N..
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Or the couple we met and became friends with but not playmates, she even ended up working with my wife's company.. He was a cop about 20 years older than his wife.. They had met when he saved her from being raped by two guys in a park.. The did some swinging but what they really loved was her being put in what at best could be described as awkward or risky to down right dangerous situations.. Whether it was going out to bars alone and going back to randoms places , to going into an adult movie theater alone, to he even sent her to spring break with a suit case, enough cash for taxi to and from airport and a couple of meals.. She was expected to find someone who would let her stay with them for whatever they wanted from her.. And in the early cell phone days she let a couple of fear boys pick her up at a bar take her back to their frat house and tie her up for their use........well it ended up a few more guys and women took turns on her while others watched well into daylight the next day with the husband having no idea where she was.. They both said it was one of their favorite "adventures"
