One girlfriend thrilled to the sexual fantasies I created for her, especially if they involved either weddings or conception. One fantasy she loved was that the custom could have developed that before the wedding day, the bride would attend a party filled only with her previous lovers—all of whom got to fuck her one last time. If she was a virgin, the best man and minister would take the place of absent lovers. She loved hearing it.
Her favorite pregnancy fantasy was that if the married couple couldn't conceive within three months of trying, additional men, at least two, would be invited to join them in bed at the same time. Once pregnant, all the men who helped would be granted secondary husband status, which meant that they could continue fucking the wife even after the ...... was born, as they counted as potential fathers.