I love the build up to an encounter - watching KK get ready is one level, preparing her is another. While I in some sense enjoy preparing her more, watching is also deliciously erotic. Just watching has a very different feeling to the situation, in part because it seems to engage the imagination more, producing more of a heightened sense of anticipation and anxiety - associated with knowing I'm not going to be present in person to witness the encounter.
When I'm preparing her, vs. just watching, it's more of a ritual; I administer her enema, bathe her, shave her, massage her, and dress her for the event. When I'm confined to the role of voyeur, KK likes to be dominant, and control the situation, tormenting me all along the way as she dresses, does her hair and makeup, and vocalizes her plans for the encounter.