Watching or not

I watch and participate. If another man has his cock buried in my wife, I also need relief! We've had a general rule that I'm there, mainly for her safety. Some guys can get carried away.

Though lately May has become more independent. Taking a stranger at a concert to a dark outside area to suck his cock. She leaves on a "girls' cruise" in a week and I'm curious what will happen. She's already packed lube, condoms and some of her slutwear.
 
I have watched my hotwife having sex with other guys on many occasions and also have stayed home when she's gone out with another guy and I much prefer having her go out and then come home to give me the details of her date.
Am I the only one husband who prefers his wife going out on a date rather than watching?
When me and the wife go out of town, we'll get a hotel with adjoining rooms. She'll take a guy she meets at the club or bar into one room and fuck them, and I'll stay in the other to make sure she's safe and he doesn't get carried away. Then she'll come back to the room I'm in to shower and .......
 
My Wife mostly fucks alone, I have had the privilege of watching her twice. What an amazing experience it is watching her fucking one of her lovers, that moment when he cums deep in her pussy and withdraws his cock, when I see his cum oozing out of her pussy is probably the horniest thing I have ever see.
Do u fuck her then? Or prove your love is unconditional by licking her messy swollen hot pussy til she cums knowing you tasting his cum inside her?.
 
If you ask me which I'd rather have, I'd say I'd rather watch. But the truth is, waiting is much hotter and more intense.

My ex-wife let me watch and it was powerfully intense. I loved it. Surreal watching another man's cock slide in and out of your wife. I kept thinking it couldn't really be happening, even though I was watching it.

But my wife now won't even consider allowing me to watch. She said it is a private act and that it would be "too pornographic". It was challenging enough just to get her to go along with the idea of being with another man, but she finally did. The first time, of course, I was unsure whether it would actually happen, so the waiting was a different sort of angst mixed with a fear of disappointment. But the second time she went with him, it was a given that she would come home fucked. Time goes by slowly, and my dick stays hard the whole time. Even if I cum in my hand, I get hard again soon.

At first, I'm wondering how it is going, and when she will. When enough time goes by, I know for sure that it has happened, or is happening.

Usually, I don't hear anything from her while she is gone until she comes home. But one time, they were at a hotel, and he left to go to the store to get some refreshments and she called me and told me how he had fucked her and how she was waiting for him to return to fuck her some more. There is something about only being able to imagine it that makes it incredibly intense. Yeah, I'd like to see it happening, but waiting is a thrill that is not to be missed, IMO.
 
We figured out pretty quick that my wife was not my personal porn star. Sex has to involve emotion for her, and she can't really do that with me there directing the action. So she has affairs with guys, mostly from work, who believe she is cheating on me for better and more sex. I actually like this MUCH better, as I end up spending the time she is out with them vascilating back and forth form TOTAL hard on, to limp dick can't get hard worrying aobut what they are doing!! LOL Cuck angst, its GREAT!! Works for us. CW
 
We always do this together. We have a guy we see pretty regularly. I like watching them, he likes watching us, she likes us watching.
Anal happens most nights, she's good with it but always askes us to go slow.
After we get done she always walks him downstairs and to the door for a goodnight kiss. She comes back to bed, we cuddle, kiss and make love. She always told me the kiss was nice and he always fingered her pussy. Always a turn on for both of us.
The last few times he's visited their goodnight kiss has tuned into one more round in the livingroom without me, all good. I've looked in on them, they didn't know.
One night I looked in on them, he was literally pounding her butt hole and she wasn't asking him to slow down. I never said anything.
Now that I saw that I wonder what gives. There's since been visits where he slides into her butt and she tells him to go slow.
I wonder what she'd be like if I wasn't there.
 
Personally I prefer my wife is being picked up on Friday evening and he drops her back on Sunday evening. Is it just not only about Sex with her lover.

Is it about the whole package.

Friday evening he picks my wife from home.

Often my wife is not finished yet, so I have the opportunity to talk to her lover. Once he confessed to me that he had that fantasy fucking my wife in a department store's dressing room. I gave him the hint how he gets her to take off her jeans and also her bra.
Sometimes much later my wife send me a message on a Saturday afternoon: Amor, I got finally a new bra, and you will not believe what I just did....
But this is another story....

After she is ready for him on a friday evening, they go to a Restaurant of her choice. Have dinner together, maybe a short visit to a pub close by.

Arriving at his home she prepares herself for him in his bathroom. Returning, dressed up in something very revealing to the candlelight living room to have a last cup of red wine on his couch.

Finally, to live out the lust that arose there in his bedroom.

Next morning they are planning their day, doing things any couple would do. Walking hand in hand in town, have a snack somewhere …..Sightseeing…..or whatever....In this way she has 2 Nights with her Lover in which they can act freely and live out their fantasies

On Sunday evening he drops her home… she will hardly be able to suppress her smile for the next 2 days.
 
We always do this together. We have a guy we see pretty regularly. I like watching them, he likes watching us, she likes us watching.
Anal happens most nights, she's good with it but always askes us to go slow.
After we get done she always walks him downstairs and to the door for a goodnight kiss. She comes back to bed, we cuddle, kiss and make love. She always told me the kiss was nice and he always fingered her pussy. Always a turn on for both of us.
The last few times he's visited their goodnight kiss has tuned into one more round in the livingroom without me, all good. I've looked in on them, they didn't know.
One night I looked in on them, he was literally pounding her butt hole and she wasn't asking him to slow down. I never said anything.
Now that I saw that I wonder what gives. There's since been visits where he slides into her butt and she tells him to go slow.
I wonder what she'd be like if I wasn't there.
How certain are you that it was her ass he was fucking?
 
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Hello mate,

My case is just the opposite. We started on this only a few months ago, and since we started I never participated and watched them.

My GF is very reluctant to have me there with her.

In my case I think I'd enjoy watching them, but maybe just once for curiosity.

Since my GF is fully open to share every minor detail with me, I enjoy extremely the moment of arriving home after their encounters. We stay In bed and I jerk while she explain me every single orgasm she had with him. For me this is fucking awesome...
youre part of the experience. If she can't do it with you there, then why?
 
youre part of the experience. If she can't do it with you there, then why?
Yes, I in your point. In fact I just participated in my first session present with them and I enjoyed a lot.

But the other thing was very hot too. Leaving home and knowing what she was doing there.... I think every person can choice its best way of doing it.

Being present is great, of course. But imagination is very powerful.
 
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