Asian wife has fantasized about being spit roasted. But when I propose finding someone she turned a bit shy and was all "I just want to be with you". Which is flattering but that doesn't fill her holes! She has banging body and can get many men off but she fails to realize her potential as a good cumslut
I believe it's an asian wife thing that they're shy and too scared to act out and follow through with their fantasy
I have seen this theme and question in other forums. It's risky to offer generalizations or stereotypes, but here I go. First off, Asian women are no more slutty, kinky or sexually liberated than other women. It's a mistake to think they are open to anything sexual. Some Asian women seek a professional man with minimally an upper-middle class income and status. To achieve that end, they dress well, take care of their bodies, use the right makeup and hair styling, develop their own education and professional careers, and avoid even the appearance of being slutty. I think that Asian women in this group are often sexually frustrated or unsatisfied, but will not risk losing the husbands that mean so much to their sense of success. (See my personal account below.)
It is important to distinguish that "Asian" is a broad category. Asian Indian, Chinese, Vietnamese, Thai, Cambodian, Laotian, and Philippine women are different in culture and often in income group. Many Philippine women come from working class families, and many of the women work in hospitals. My sense is that they might be more receptive to the hot-wife life or cucking their husbands. Many Philippine women are overly repressed by their parents who are Catholic and overly protective of their daughters' chastity. This can make the women sexually conservative or the exact opposite, i.e. turn them into sluts who pursue sex 24/7.
Married Chinese, Vietnamese, and Korean women seem more into upper-class status, although they will flirt with other men in a "safe" environment like at the office. Again, it's risky to generalize. I knew of one Chinese or Vietnamese MILF and her boyfriend (who was Asian Indian) who regularly went to the adult theater for other men to have sex with her. Heck the BF even had a bag of condoms that he gave to the guys who lined up for her. I had a older male friend who told me of his older Laotian GF who regularly cheated on him. So, there are definitely exceptions to my assessment of Chinese, Vietnamese, and Korean women. As for Asian Indian women, I don't see enough of them in public to draw any conclusions. I sense that they stay within their own ethnic community.
I have a personal relationship that is perplexing and says something about Asian women. I work with a married Japanese American woman (she is married to a white guy) who is in her mid-50s (a definite MILF). If you saw her naked (I never have), you probably would not find her too sexy. She is as thin as a pencil with no curves. However, she dresses perfectly, usually wears shoes with heels that enhance the attractiveness and sexiness of her legs, uses contacts instead of classes that make her look nerdy, and makes sure her hair is perfectly combed. I suspect that her home life is sometimes difficult as she spends extra hours at the office. I heard a rumor that she had an affair with one of our co-workers, but she denied it when I asked her about it, saying that she would never risk her marriage (I still don't know if I believe her, but I have to accept her story as truthful; she admitted that she was close friends with the other guy and that some people wrongly accused them of having an affair). Anyway, we developed a close friendship. We spent a lot of time together that was not work related. I think that if we were single, sex would have occurred. However, no matter how close we were, we never touched each other. I think that we genuinely longed for each other, but neither of us would cross that line. In fact, she stated to me that she accepted my flirting because she knew I would not cross that line. I think that she wanted my affection and all the sexy compliments I gave her. However, she refused to cuck her husband and trusted me not to push her in that direction. I would also say that she is repressed sexually. Although we flirt, she never mentions anything related to sex or what she likes with sex. She seems shocked when I mention my sexual experiences and preferences.
There is something erotic about a petite mature Asian wife taking a huge bull for the first time. I think this scenario is mostly confined to porn, but as always I could be wrong.
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Excellent overview, wow! I was lucky enough to date a Japanese woman when single, - she was married and frustrated sexually and also resented the way her husband treated her as less than a full partner in their marriage. I thought at the time I first saw her that she had simply decided to move beyond the "frustrated" part and begin enjoying other men who would not only respect her, but cherish her and value their time with her. This is what I thought. Man, was I ever Naive.
How did I ever get lucky enough to meet and actually date a beautiful, witty and charming Japanese woman? Well, one night after work, I was having cocktails with my secretary and a couple others on my staff. We'd had quite a few and somehow got on the topic of fantasies. You all know how it is.
I shared that I'd never dated an Asian girl and found them very attractive and exotic. My secretary said she knew just the girl for me, and fixed us up. She was as described in your last paragraph, thin (perfectly so), well dressed and very comfortable in any setting. Why was she interested in me? Well, she said, her husband didn't pay attention to her. And when he does, it's fast, - too fast, and then he's asleep and doesn't wake up until the next morning. Especially if she feeds him a big meal.
She was simply ravenous (no play on words here) in bed and game for anything. So was I. And she'd come out and meet me any time for dinner (at a nice restaurant), sex at a hotel or anywhere I chose (no condoms ever) and travel - she'd make me my favorite meals and feed me as I drove us out of town to our hotel destination for the night, or she'd jack me off and blow me in the car as I drove. I had a big Lincoln at the time and the front seat was perfect for that. Never a drop left on me or my trousers. When we went out to a fine restaurant, she'd wear a sheer top with no bra if I requested it - with her I got to experience all kinds of sexy things and she loved pleasing this naive white boy. 🙂))) But soon enough....
I realized I was in over my head. As I got to know her, I learned that her husband made a ton of money (he was a plumber for a high end Beverly Hills celeb crowd) and she could do most anything she wanted during the day - as he "could care less" - her words. She was hanging with the Hollywood celebrity crowd (recording artists, mainly) and was a sort of groupie for a recording star you'd recognize. Her schedule and time with me had to be worked around when he wanted her for sex. And then I learned (she told me as she grew to trust me) that she's running ......, - picking up coke at the airport and running it to the dealers for a huge cash payout. She didn't do this for the money, - she told me more than once that she did it for the thrills - the adrenalin rush. And I never saw her snort a line nor did I ever suspect she did so (at least when she was with me), but I was pretty nervous that at some point, the cops would be surveiling me as well as her and I began tapering off the relationship (with great regrets). She understood, and we parted friends. But what a ride. What happened to her? A couple of years after I last saw her, she had a close call with the cops, and she moved to another state, got married again and that's all I know. But..the area she moved to was another area frequented by the so-called "elites" who would need a supply of the white powder. For her, the thrill of pulling off a ...... run was as good as sex.
Wow! That is quite a story. I don't think that my Japanese American co-worker runs with the elite, although she certainly lives in an expensive part of town and has affluent friends. I don't think that coke is part of her life, although someone once told me that she snorted some at the office with another woman and the guy that people thought the was having sex with. I asked her about that, and she denied ever doing coke in her entire life. Who knows? In any case, if she were like your friend, she would have made a sexual move with me by now. Honestly, we do love each other. We both have expressed our love. I think that it disappoints her that we both are married and neither of us will cheat. I am not sure what her relationship is with her husband, but she doesn't seem to eager to go home to him at the end of the day (just like I am not too eager to go home to my wife). We both stay at the office well past quitting time, pretending that we are working. For now, we both are cherish the love we have and are content with that. Sort of different from your experience, which seemed more based on the sex and the thrill.
Your profile has some amazing photos and videos. Thanks, or should I say "wanks" for posting them
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