Too many men today have abdicated their role of controlling their wives or girlfriends. If they think they are in control, then they have a guy by the balls, figuratively and maybe literally. You have to use them hard and use them often. No romantic stuff, just hard sexual use.
I meet this slut in the park. Her husband and kids have no idea, nor do the people at the elementary school where she teaches. They all think she is nice and respectable. But she needs to be used hard. She doesn't suck me -- I fuck her mouth. There is a major difference, namely who his in control.
This 60-something granny lives in my neighborhood and comes by to see me when her husband is having coffee with his male friends or some such activity. She used to gag real bad when I pushed too hard and too far in but now she take sit like a pro. I can feel her chin touching my balls.