My wife is going on her first date next week. She has never had sex with another guy before, with or without me there. We've met up with this guy together once before for a drink. She's meant to be just meeting him a second time for a couple of drinks and to get to know each other better, but she's actually dying for things to go A LOT further (and told him so last night).
She asked me how far I'm alright with her going. I said that kissing, tit sucking, pussy rub/fingering is the limit without me there this time, but that if things get carried away and it ends up with her giving him head or full on fucking that's ok as long as she tells me.
So basically I'd MUCH rather prefer to be there the first time they fuck (babysitting duties mean that I can't make it for the near future), but if they do fuck this time and I miss out, I'll just have to learn to live with it.
Sorry to hijack your thread but I've been meaning to get this off my chest too (was nearly gonna make a new thread about it).
I'm fearing I'll be sitting there hoping that they don't suck/fuck, but I've got a feeling they will. I'm scared that if I try to put my foot down and say she's 100% not allowed to cross a line and that I'll be hurt and angry if she does, that she'll just hide it from me if she does.
I spoke to her and she swears she would tell me either way. She also said she just won't go back to his place, but at the same time, I don't want to be responsible for wrecking their fun. I guess I just need to man up and deal with whatever comes.