We took the next step and she went through with blowing my buddy. We agreed that I would step outside to make everyone comfortable and my friend would film it for me. I told them I would step outside for 10 minutes figuring it would take 5 minutes for them to get ready and comfortable and 5 minutes of oral. When I came back in they had just finished. I was asking questions about it but no one seemed to want to talk details. My buddy said she did a good job but because they were short on time he had to rush it to get his nut out and said if he had more time it would have been better. So I suggested we all watch the video back together but my buddy didn't want to and said he preferred if I watched it when I left.
When we left I was talking to my gf in the car and she was pretty quiet about it and she said she was nervous about me watching the video. She said he had forced his dick down her throat and made her swallow his cum which is something she had never done before and didn't want to do. I guess we should have set boundaries but didn't think we would have to for a blowjob. When I watched it back I told her how hot she was and what a great job she did but she was right that he was to rough. I told her he was probably being forceful so he can bust his nut in the short time frame he had which is what he said. Overall she said she was to nervous to say anything and was just following his lead as he requested. I can definitely see where she is coming from after watching the video though. Definitely hot but overwhelming for sure especially given how inexperienced she is and he knew that and that she was vulnerable in the situation.
It was a lesson all around. Happy to share video in private and discuss for those interested. Next step is either another blowjob to get her comfortable with it or possible sex.