Well the thing is this. I was married for over 30 years to a woman I had married right out of high school. The prom queen. She became a homemaker, a ...... of 4 , also worked outside the home as the kids got older. All this we had a good sex life . Then the empty nest began . I will interject here , I was a cheater , no affairs, one a prostitute , another when out with the guys , back when I was younger , just a pickup. She didn’t know. Also I was closet bi . I would sneak off to adult bookstores and have sex with men. So I’m not a victim. I wanted a slut for a wife . I didn’t have that . I had a nice respectable ...... who loved sex . I managed systematically break her down and get her to fuck a black guy . To make a long story short she fucking loved it . Also in high school she was a slut . Now at 50 she reverted. It all came apart when I failed to limit it to me picking out her bull and participating. She got a job tending bar . Started wearing low cut tops and a push-up bra. Great tits at the age of 50 draws young men like flies to sugar. She quit coming home . Closing time was 2 am , by 2:30 she was in bed with someone, not me . Looking back , I deserve it. At least I can cruise all I want now . She’s happily remarriedWhy is that please? How do you think lack of ground rules affected you?