It starts out like this. You vetted a guy you found on line. Your wife approved by the photos the now, "selected bull" sent. A date was set for playtime at a local hotel. Introductions were made. You then turn your wife over to the bull for his pleasure and your entertainment. Your wife a willing participant in this because it makes her feel sexually desirable and vulnerable. She doesn't feel threatened because you're right there.
And just with a stare she says, "Look my husband. Look how your possession can give pleasure. My body arouses him and he will use me for sexual lust. I know you will reclaim me during this session".