Honestly there are so many stories that this forum isn’t big enough to tell. However i will say this. If a sailors wife cheats and tries to keep it secret it will eventually come out. The Navy is a small tight group of guys and gals. They will tell. That being said, in my experience, the coupl who have a system, much like my wife and I , and the couples that stay together. We have a huge divorce rate in the submarine service because of its very nature. Couples who tru saying “i will always be fa “ of “ my wife will never do that” have a high rate of failure. We have a term in the Navy called “Westpac Widows” there are a few infamous bars in San Diego that are known for the pace to find Westpac Widow. For the time being my system is working