Should I even try?

[mellisaxx]

One drunken night my husband and I were talking fantasies and such..it was all fun and games until he brought up a gang bang. I was quick to say Yes!! To which he dug further into putting up his idea in a sense. "4 or 5 guy"? He mentioned I said depends how much time we have I guess he started stroking himself "all above 8" right" ..he continued on etc etc. which brings me to this post he said ok let's do this let's have a gang bang but it's on my terms. I said of course I'm not doing this for just myself but for the both of us acting out a fantasy and I wouldn't wanna make him feel uncomfortable in any way shape or form. We start talking and I let him think of the whole thing this is what he came back with.
1. Everyone has a recent STD test
2.everyone uses a condom
3.no oral (giving or receiving) only from him
4. No alcohol or ......
5. No cumming on me
6.only vaginal
7. only one black guy (idk why)


To me this doesn't even sound like fun to be honest. When I think of a GB I think of wild crazy porn gangbang.Should I just go through with it just to break the ice and hope he has fun and next one (if there is a next one) might be wilder.?

Or is it just a mental thing and actually going through with it make him look at me different or even not love me?

Give me your opinion on this please I'm stuck and this is in the works but I don't wanna invest time into finding participants and arranging things if it's gonna be a negative thing. Please help!

 

[Happy Mom]

It’s good you discussed it with each other first. I have had a ten man gang bang and loved it. My hubby and I are swingers so he not only encouraged me he was one of the ten. There were NO condoms. I only do bareback. I did suck every cock that was entering my pussy. We didn’t worry to much about testing since most of the men were from swinger groups we know. It was nothing like porn. Every man was respectful. My hubby and remember it fondly and I’ll likely do it again someday. However, I did have trouble walking for two or three days. I was VERY sore. Two of the ten were black but honestly you don’t notice when you’re getting it that hard from so many men. Most released their cum inside me but three or four squirted it on my body.

If you have questions let me know. I’ll try and answer.

 

[mellisaxx]

I understand the testing and the condoms. That's fine, but no blowing or no anal and only one black guy is and all play is with a condom on is a lot I feel like there's steps to sex touching leads to mouth stuff which leads to genital stuff and skipping steps throws one out of place plus if they are only gonna bang my pussy they're gonna take forever to cum

 

[Happy Mom]

I understand the testing and the condoms. That's fine, but no blowing or no anal and only one black guy is and all play is with a condom on is a lot I feel like there's steps to sex touching leads to mouth stuff which leads to genital stuff and skipping steps throws one out of place plus if they are only gonna bang my pussy they're gonna take forever to cum

Go at your own pace. The ten men I fucked only took about an hour. Sucking then first made them cum quicker.

 

[Truepervert1020]

I say the testing and no ...... or alcohol are good but the rest I would toss but that's me.... sounds like he likes the idea but wants to control the situation to much...he may blow up and get mad.. tred lightly

 

[birdman83]

One drunken night my husband and I were talking fantasies and such..it was all fun and games until he brought up a gang bang. I was quick to say Yes!! To which he dug further into putting up his idea in a sense. "4 or 5 guy"? He mentioned I said depends how much time we have I guess he started stroking himself "all above 8" right" ..he continued on etc etc. which brings me to this post he said ok let's do this let's have a gang bang but it's on my terms. I said of course I'm not doing this for just myself but for the both of us acting out a fantasy and I wouldn't wanna make him feel uncomfortable in any way shape or form. We start talking and I let him think of the whole thing this is what he came back with.
1. Everyone has a recent STD test
2.everyone uses a condom
3.no oral (giving or receiving) only from him
4. No alcohol or ......
5. No cumming on me
6.only vaginal
7. only one black guy (idk why)


To me this doesn't even sound like fun to be honest. When I think of a GB I think of wild crazy porn gangbang.Should I just go through with it just to break the ice and hope he has fun and next one (if there is a next one) might be wilder.?

Or is it just a mental thing and actually going through with it make him look at me different or even not love me?

Give me your opinion on this please I'm stuck and this is in the works but I don't wanna invest time into finding participants and arranging things if it's gonna be a negative thing. Please help!

What you want is just as important, even more so because it’s your body. This should be something you BOTH enjoy, not something to do just because you think it will please your hubby