Well, I think it's all ready and about to be published. In all honesty, I'm pretty disappointed in how the article was edited. It is me in some ways but not me in so many other important ways. My thoughts. In the end, it doesn't really tell my story, but only an "acceptable" part of it. I barely recognize myself in much of it.
I understand what they are trying to do, this is a publication about "the lifestyle" and most of my experience is really NOT in "the lifestyle". Most of my experience involved "cheating" which is strictly forbidden in the actual "lifestyle". They are trying to make the lifestyle appealing to others and since the lifestyle is so judgemental about things like this, NOTHING about my "cheating" experiences is even mentioned. In all honesty, that WAS my version of the lifestyle.
NOTHING about my youthful experiences, yeah, I kinda get that, can't have my school girl stuff out there in a legit lifestyle environment. The trouble is, this sort of ends up starting a story without it's beginning at all. Also, without any of my cheating experiences, it starts with a true "lifestyle" type experience, my disillusionment with it (and to be honest, the actual "lifestyle" clubs, couples play, etc) really never appealed to me very much at all. I did that because I wanted to include my husband in my sexual activities outside of our marriage but those experiences were a mixed bag, often not fulfilling and I just ended up drinking and having sex that wasn't much fun for me. I ended up quitting "the lifestyle" for a number of years but continued my "cheating" regularly.
They ended up having me start with getting back in to the lifestyle (with my husband's encouragement and assistance) and discovering "hotwifing" which is really very fun. It's like cheating (which I prefer) but in a lifestyle friendly way for us as a couple. THAT is the angle they were looking for. Something other wives could legitimately get in to and something other couples could relate to since it's such a fantasy for so many of them. They were looking for a success story to perhaps motivate those on the edge of taking the plunge but still reluctant to indulge. It's pretty much dating regularly where the outcome with new guys is pretty much predetermined. Being married and dating for sex with other guys is the best of both worlds. So, it's probably a bit boring and "vanilla" for my experiences (you have much more of the "fun stuff" and pics on this site), but I did have fun with the project.
The good news is that they want regular stories from me which I guarantee will delve further into the "real" me and our experiences. Bi girl stuff , cuckold stuff, creampies and creampie eating (bare play is VERY frowned upon the the LS and NOT mentioned at all) and certainly my early development and "cheating" on my husband. So, this is just about my experience with the lifestyle proper and discovering hotwifing with more to come. I hope it will be a fun read overall. I do like the pics. It's not out and I haven't seen the final product yet so I guess we'll see.
Mrs Hotiwfe