She's nearly there...how to get her to go the distance

[Wetandwild40s]

I've taken advice from this site and introduced my horny wife to large dildos. She loves the Shane Diesel Dildo and a few others, including a hollow large strap on.

When I'm fingering her to make her squirt she talks really filthy, and loves to talk about fantasies, hers and mine. She knows I want to see her filled by multiple men, and has recently said that we should set up a profile on a swinger website, and allow her to choose the men. She then said that she wants me to review them and have the final say.

The problem is that she never mentions this in normal life. We're both very busy so it would be hard to arrange anyway, but I'm wanting to hear what people think I should do to move this forward without scaring her off the idea. Do you think she's ready to enter this lifestyle, or is it a horny fantasy that I should not seriously pursue.

 

[JaknSuz]

Ask her to help you set up the profile. Take her shopping for sexy outfits and as my wife calls them....Slut shoes. Take pictures with her new outfits to put on the profile. When you set up the profile, be specific about what she wants....and even more so about what she doesn't want. Have fun together setting up her sexy profile and then watch the inbox fill up! Hope you guys have fun and she gets lots of strange cock.

 

[Pasdedeux22]

She needs to be in the mood and turned onto talk about it. I think that’s fairly normal. I would go online and find someone she would like. I’m sure you know what that is. Tell her you have a date set up and see how she reacts. Alternatively, take her out and accidentally meet the guy. Let her run with that

 

[CONST65]

Every here has great ideas Get her dress up take her out dancing and c clubbing Sit where she gets noticed
Leave go to the bathroom for a while or let her you got a text.you have to.call your company be gone forb20/30 minutes sit.at the bar out of a site maybe she gets asked to.dance or someone buys her drimk and let nature take it s course. This could be the start of her being a hotwife feel free to ask anything here or Dm me Bob

 

[Vegas Couple]

We started in a similar fashion. Just be patient and enjoy where you're at. Make sure she's enjoying and keep the role play going. When she is ready to explore going further she will let you know.

 

[Wetandwild40s]

Ask her to help you set up the profile. Take her shopping for sexy outfits and as my wife calls them....Slut shoes. Take pictures with her new outfits to put on the profile. When you set up the profile, be specific about what she wants....and even more so about what she doesn't want. Have fun together setting up her sexy profile and then watch the inbox fill up! Hope you guys have fun and she gets lots of strange cock.

Thanks for the advice. I decided to take photos of her dressed in some sexy lingerie and stockings. I then told her that they weren't for me, but for our profile. Once she'd ascertained that i hadn't photographed her face, she was curious about what people would think. She says she'll help me add them next sexy time. I am excitedly planning this for this weekend!

 

[niskeyguy]

I've taken advice from this site and introduced my horny wife to large dildos. She loves the Shane Diesel Dildo and a few others, including a hollow large strap on.

When I'm fingering her to make her squirt she talks really filthy, and loves to talk about fantasies, hers and mine. She knows I want to see her filled by multiple men, and has recently said that we should set up a profile on a swinger website, and allow her to choose the men. She then said that she wants me to review them and have the final say.

The problem is that she never mentions this in normal life. We're both very busy so it would be hard to arrange anyway, but I'm wanting to hear what people think I should do to move this forward without scaring her off the idea. Do you think she's ready to enter this lifestyle, or is it a horny fantasy that I should not seriously pursue.

I think your all set. pick a guy if she says ok set it up. once you jump off the cliff there is no turning back.

 

[Wetandwild40s]

Just an update. We added some photos to our profile but she wanted them private / for friends only. I can't believe we're even at this stage. She wants to sit down next weekend and go through the messages we've received and look through profiles. I'm getting slightly nervous as well as excited. I've looked at the messages without clicking on them, some are very attractive guys with huge thick cocks. Yikes.

I suggested we organise men to come to our house, but she says it's too risky. She wants a hotel, somewhere private with a family room. This is actually happening guys. She also wanted to know how jealous I would be, and was pleased when I told her that my jealousy would be off the charts but I would enjoy reclaiming her as my own. To which she replied "your own little big cock slut". My wait is almost over.

 

[niskeyguy]

Just an update. We added some photos to our profile but she wanted them private / for friends only. I can't believe we're even at this stage. She wants to sit down next weekend and go through the messages we've received and look through profiles. I'm getting slightly nervous as well as excited. I've looked at the messages without clicking on them, some are very attractive guys with huge thick cocks. Yikes.

I suggested we organise men to come to our house, but she says it's too risky. She wants a hotel, somewhere private with a family room. This is actually happening guys. She also wanted to know how jealous I would be, and was pleased when I told her that my jealousy would be off the charts but I would enjoy reclaiming her as my own. To which she replied "your own little big cock slut". My wait is almost over.

Wouldn't mlnd seeing her

 

[pakicuckfantasy]

Just an update. We added some photos to our profile but she wanted them private / for friends only. I can't believe we're even at this stage. She wants to sit down next weekend and go through the messages we've received and look through profiles. I'm getting slightly nervous as well as excited. I've looked at the messages without clicking on them, some are very attractive guys with huge thick cocks. Yikes.

I suggested we organise men to come to our house, but she says it's too risky. She wants a hotel, somewhere private with a family room. This is actually happening guys. She also wanted to know how jealous I would be, and was pleased when I told her that my jealousy would be off the charts but I would enjoy reclaiming her as my own. To which she replied "your own little big cock slut". My wait is almost over.

Love to know which website have you used to create profile

 

[coastalkid]

Just an update. We added some photos to our profile but she wanted them private / for friends only. I can't believe we're even at this stage. She wants to sit down next weekend and go through the messages we've received and look through profiles. I'm getting slightly nervous as well as excited. I've looked at the messages without clicking on them, some are very attractive guys with huge thick cocks. Yikes.

I suggested we organise men to come to our house, but she says it's too risky. She wants a hotel, somewhere private with a family room. This is actually happening guys. She also wanted to know how jealous I would be, and was pleased when I told her that my jealousy would be off the charts but I would enjoy reclaiming her as my own. To which she replied "your own little big cock slut". My wait is almost over.

This has to be an exciting stage. I honestly hope you talk with her more about the jealousy. So many people post here about how important a hot wife's first experience is. The other side of this is that not many post about how important a husband's first experience is. This will be as new to you as it is to her. If her first experience is a bad one it will be obvious. If YOUR first experience is a bad one it probably won't be as obvious. It does sound like you are off to the races though! I hope it goes perfectly for you, sincerely!

 

[niskeyguy]

This has to be an exciting stage. I honestly hope you talk with her more about the jealousy. So many people post here about how important a hot wife's first experience is. The other side of this is that not many post about how important a husband's first experience is. This will be as new to you as it is to her. If her first experience is a bad one it will be obvious. If YOUR first experience is a bad one it probably won't be as obvious. It does sound like you are off to the races though! I hope it goes perfectly for you, sincerely!

Something that helps is ,let him and her do it before you. Don't cum until they have done it. Once you cum it isn't as exotic as it was. After a few times sharing the jealous thing calms

 

[Bowlerlb]

Something that helps is ,let him and her do it before you. Don't cum until they have done it. Once you cum it isn't as exotic as it was. After a few times sharing the jealous thing calms

Some info attached. I agree you must not cum until your wife has had all the pleasure she can take and her lover has ejaculated. If you cum when you are soothing/cleaning her pussy she will be happy knowing you enjoy the smell and taste of her used pussy. Dont be surprised if you are attracted to her lovers big cock.

 

[Teddybear2112]

We started by putting our profile on a swingers site. Used to get lots of messages every day. Dee would really enjoy sitting down in the evening going through them all. That’s how she met all the lovers she’s had since we’ve been together.

 

[Ro66]

Just an update. We added some photos to our profile but she wanted them private / for friends only. I can't believe we're even at this stage. She wants to sit down next weekend and go through the messages we've received and look through profiles. I'm getting slightly nervous as well as excited. I've looked at the messages without clicking on them, some are very attractive guys with huge thick cocks. Yikes.

I suggested we organise men to come to our house, but she says it's too risky. She wants a hotel, somewhere private with a family room. This is actually happening guys. She also wanted to know how jealous I would be, and was pleased when I told her that my jealousy would be off the charts but I would enjoy reclaiming her as my own. To which she replied "your own little big cock slut". My wait is almost over.

Has she seen the profile responses yet or has she backed off?

 

[Fredposer2017]

I've taken advice from this site and introduced my horny wife to large dildos. She loves the Shane Diesel Dildo and a few others, including a hollow large strap on.

When I'm fingering her to make her squirt she talks really filthy, and loves to talk about fantasies, hers and mine. She knows I want to see her filled by multiple men, and has recently said that we should set up a profile on a swinger website, and allow her to choose the men. She then said that she wants me to review them and have the final say.

The problem is that she never mentions this in normal life. We're both very busy so it would be hard to arrange anyway, but I'm wanting to hear what people think I should do to move this forward without scaring her off the idea. Do you think she's ready to enter this lifestyle, or is it a horny fantasy that I should not seriously pursue.

Any closer?