My smoking hot 42 year old wife is so close to taking the plunge and becoming a hotwife it's maddening! I KNOW she wants it, she knows I know, in her words she would love to be a 'slut' but isn't 'brave' enough! How can I support her in getting over whatever doubts are still holding her back, despite years of talking and fantasising and both admitting it's our number one fantasy?