My wife has finally picked the man who’s gong to make her an official hotwife, it’s taken some time but we were careful about it. After putting her profile on a swingers site and sifting through a ton of responses only a few stood out who seemed decent and we made a date at a wine shop to meet him. We did, she liked him and wanted to see him again (she wants to get to know the man before moving forward). I listened to the two of them asking questions now and then after which I decided he was a decent guy. At the second meet up I made myself scarce and left them alone to talk for about an hour and upon returning she told me they were good and ready to take it to the next level, it was very relaxed and both of them were all smiles. While leaving they had a short make out session in the parking lot which was hot. The two of them have been texting back and forth almost every day with some pretty heavy flirting, she shows me all the texts and the sexual tension is rising. We’re going to host at our house and if the two of them weren’t so busy it’d happen tonight. The plans are for next week and it’s hot to see her excitement for this to happen making plans for all the sexy details, she’s getting hornier by the minute! I’m not into the humiliation thing and not sure how this’ll all go down as far as my involvement, that’s up to her. Her and I’ve discussed it and we’re thinking it might be best for them to have privacy for the first encounter to feel out his comfort level, we’ve done a lot of swinging so we’re fine whichever way this goes. The plan is I’m going to be with them in the living room watching things heat up before they head into the bedroom. I’ll watch the action on my phone, there’s a camera in there…..unless I get called to come in and help 😁