I think I am making progress with the process of making my conservative wife into a hotwife.
After a year:
She was wearing sexy thongs and Brazilian knickers and gym leggings.
She always wore her sexist knickers to her gym class.
She was telling me that she needed a real man (although she wanted that to be me).
She seemed to be fantasizing when having sex.
At times he was moaning in her .......
Sex ramped up from around 4 times a month to 8 times.
She asked me to buy her an anklet (although I don't think she is fully aware of the connotation)
After two years:
Sex in now up to 10 - 12 times a month.
She’s become dominant (basically given up on me being 'a real man').
She’s been; cumming multiple times (never used to), using new positions like reverse cowgirl, cumming in doggystyle (never used to).
She surprised me by asking for crotchless knickers and lingerie (having last year said that crotchless knickers were 'weird'. (Weird is the very word she used to describe me having a dream that she was fucking someone else.)
Perhaps most encouragingly she’s asked me to suck my cum out of her. Twice. (The first time I didn't try to. I later told her that I will if she wants but she said that she was joking and can't think of anything more disgusting. The second time I went to do it and she closed her legs. She called me disgusting. Again said she was joking and claimed not to remember having asked before. I don't know where this idea comes from as she won't watch porn. It's nothing that I've ever hinted at.)
I’ve actually told her that she is a free to have relationships with others whilst I remain monogamous. (Basically a hotwife but I didn't use the word.) Although she dismissed this as 'bullshit', she has seemed to be testing my reaction with things that she says. For example after we watched a tv show, where a woman had was unfaithful, she said to me: 'If I fucked a black man in the bathroom at a party you would probably just laugh.'
She's been expressing concern that I'm gay and she had dreams related to that concern.
She's told me of other dreams that clearly indicate that she is worried that I want to get with other women and that she doesn't trust me to have thought through the potential consequences of a course of action.
She mocks me for being beta.
Lastly, prior to lockdown, she had started occasionally hanging out alone at a new hip coffee bar in town. And there's been some suspicious activity around her excersize schedule during lockdown and her gym visits prior to it. Although that might just be in my head.
Give me suggestions for my next move. If they are sensible and appropriate for her, I will make that move and let you know the results.
After a year:
She was wearing sexy thongs and Brazilian knickers and gym leggings.
She always wore her sexist knickers to her gym class.
She was telling me that she needed a real man (although she wanted that to be me).
She seemed to be fantasizing when having sex.
At times he was moaning in her .......
Sex ramped up from around 4 times a month to 8 times.
She asked me to buy her an anklet (although I don't think she is fully aware of the connotation)
After two years:
Sex in now up to 10 - 12 times a month.
She’s become dominant (basically given up on me being 'a real man').
She’s been; cumming multiple times (never used to), using new positions like reverse cowgirl, cumming in doggystyle (never used to).
She surprised me by asking for crotchless knickers and lingerie (having last year said that crotchless knickers were 'weird'. (Weird is the very word she used to describe me having a dream that she was fucking someone else.)
Perhaps most encouragingly she’s asked me to suck my cum out of her. Twice. (The first time I didn't try to. I later told her that I will if she wants but she said that she was joking and can't think of anything more disgusting. The second time I went to do it and she closed her legs. She called me disgusting. Again said she was joking and claimed not to remember having asked before. I don't know where this idea comes from as she won't watch porn. It's nothing that I've ever hinted at.)
I’ve actually told her that she is a free to have relationships with others whilst I remain monogamous. (Basically a hotwife but I didn't use the word.) Although she dismissed this as 'bullshit', she has seemed to be testing my reaction with things that she says. For example after we watched a tv show, where a woman had was unfaithful, she said to me: 'If I fucked a black man in the bathroom at a party you would probably just laugh.'
She's been expressing concern that I'm gay and she had dreams related to that concern.
She's told me of other dreams that clearly indicate that she is worried that I want to get with other women and that she doesn't trust me to have thought through the potential consequences of a course of action.
She mocks me for being beta.
Lastly, prior to lockdown, she had started occasionally hanging out alone at a new hip coffee bar in town. And there's been some suspicious activity around her excersize schedule during lockdown and her gym visits prior to it. Although that might just be in my head.
Give me suggestions for my next move. If they are sensible and appropriate for her, I will make that move and let you know the results.
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