Respect

[single2mingle001]

I agree, that half the people here are using this website for erotica posting and just talking about fantasy's they have. Having no shows, or people that waste your time that are never planning to meet, it's literally the worst thing in the world.

I am guessing your a member on SwingingHeaven? I used to have a lifetime account, but I wanted to deactivate it for a while, but didn't realize it deleted the account, so my lifetime membership is gone. RIP! kinda sad honestly.

Sounds like you guys Retired in Eastern Europe, South America, or Asia, Since the cost of living is lower, if I am wrong, well darn it.
(just checked your about me section and I was correct)

Screening the person to play with makes a lot of sense, since people enjoy a drama free time. the way you interact on the site, I could tell clearly that you were real, it's kinda funny how easy it is to spot someone that just want to fuck or get off on some pictures. I honestly don't find pictures or tributes that attractive also I think tributing is basically getting cucked online lol. It's like saying here I am going to let my cum go to waste, instead of cuming with a woman.

Husbands do enjoy watching or even participating most of the time, because it's like watching porn in real time, and that's a big turn on for a lot of guys.
cucks just happen to want to watch their wifes get fucked. From my experience alpha "cucks" tend to join in, when ever I play with their wifes, they normally warm her up, and then enjoy the show. There aren't many couples that are actually into cuckolding without getting jealous or protective. I am happy that you guys secure in your relationship.

 

[Nakednerds]

We use another site(s) to connect with men. We also don't use the term "bull". We expect to be respected and we respect the lovers we hook up with. Even though I only watch and photograph she always refers to the men as "our lovers". We are always contacted by the men. We never reach out to someone. No need to. There are plenty of fit, attractive intelligent men who approach us. More than we can respond to.

We have found that if I pre screen, then she chats with them online, and then we do a phone call and see if there is chemistry that most will show up for a tentative meeting at a local pub or restaurant. All the ones who meet get together for sex. It is amazing that some men make it through all that, agree to meet and even talk to us the day of the meeting, and just never show up for the meeting and we never hear from them again. There are reasons for this and we are never angry about it. Since we are in it together we just enjoy our time together no matter what. If the guy doesn't show the two of us have a nice evening out.

I am the perfect host when we have one of her lovers over. I help prepare her for this visit by assisting her with lingerie, shoes, shaving her pussy, etc. When the guy arrives I make sure that they aren't disturbed by phone calls, etc. and provide beverages, lube, condoms (if used). I have never been treated poorly by one of her lovers. They all want a return visit and know that both of us have to be happy with their behavior and performance.

A couple of years ago we did have one long term lover who, on his last visit, decided to sell us on his brand of political beliefs. You know the type. His president is God and has no faults and he insists that the whole world see it that way. After multiple warnings by both of us to not talk about politics, he was escorted to the door by her and never invited back. He was genuinely surprised that she tossed him out. I was genuinely surprised that she did it so nicely.

 

[atantonov]

I agree, that half the people here are using this website for erotica posting and just talking about fantasy's they have. Having no shows, or people that waste your time that are never planning to meet, it's literally the worst thing in the world.

I am guessing your a member on SwingingHeaven? I used to have a lifetime account, but I wanted to deactivate it for a while, but didn't realize it deleted the account, so my lifetime membership is gone. RIP! kinda sad honestly.

Sounds like you guys Retired in Eastern Europe, South America, or Asia, Since the cost of living is lower, if I am wrong, well darn it.
(just checked your about me section and I was correct)

Screening the person to play with makes a lot of sense, since people enjoy a drama free time. the way you interact on the site, I could tell clearly that you were real, it's kinda funny how easy it is to spot someone that just want to fuck or get off on some pictures. I honestly don't find pictures or tributes that attractive also I think tributing is basically getting cucked online lol. It's like saying here I am going to let my cum go to waste, instead of cuming with a woman.

Husbands do enjoy watching or even participating most of the time, because it's like watching porn in real time, and that's a big turn on for a lot of guys.
cucks just happen to want to watch their wifes get fucked. From my experience alpha "cucks" tend to join in, when ever I play with their wifes, they normally warm her up, and then enjoy the show. There aren't many couples that are actually into cuckolding without getting jealous or protective. I am happy that you guys secure in your relationship.

Look.... there is a reason for everything. Yes we have the kind that comes on this site and chats and looks at pictures and videos and jerks off.

You say this "Having no shows, or people that waste your time that are never planning to meet, it's literally the worst thing in the world."

To me this is normal... and it has to be happening.... I am on this site to find a couple and to play with them, make no mistakes about it! How ever I am not going to neat the couple just because they are a reall couple and they want to meat me. Just because there is a wife that wants to fuck me, has a pussy, a warm body and a heart beet and a husband that wants to watch me fuck her and maybe even assist in cleaning up.... ITS NOT A ENOUGH OF A REASON FOR ME TO MEAT THEM! There has to be attraction... a chemistry for it to happen!

 

[single2mingle001]

Look.... there is a reason for everything. Yes we have the kind that comes on this site and chats and looks at pictures and videos and jerks off.

You say this "Having no shows, or people that waste your time that are never planning to meet, it's literally the worst thing in the world."

To me this is normal... and it has to be happening.... I am on this site to find a couple and to play with them, make no mistakes about it! How ever I am not going to neat the couple just because they are a reall couple and they want to meat me. Just because there is a wife that wants to fuck me, has a pussy, a warm body and a heart beet and a husband that wants to watch me fuck her and maybe even assist in cleaning up.... ITS NOT A ENOUGH OF A REASON FOR ME TO MEAT THEM! There has to be attraction... a chemistry for it to happen!

yikes, a no show is defined as setting up a date, and meeting.

if someone agreed to a date and doesn't show up that's a dick move

setting up a meeting is after both parties have vetted each other, so your point is irrelevant.

the person that isn't going to show up should at least say they are canceling in advance, it has nothing to do with attraction or anything like that.

in a theoretical world, you want to fuck me, and I want to fuck you. If you set up a meeting and don't keep to your word, you are a bitch, it's that simple.

what we are talking about is people that say one thing and do the other,

I am not talking about people that aren't interested

 

[atantonov]

yikes, a no show is defined as setting up a date, and meeting.

if someone agreed to a date and doesn't show up that's a dick move

setting up a meeting is after both parties have vetted each other, so your point is irrelevant.

the person that isn't going to show up should at least say they are canceling in advance, it has nothing to do with attraction or anything like that.

in a theoretical world, you want to fuck me, and I want to fuck you. If you set up a meeting and don't keep to your word, you are a bitch, it's that simple.

what we are talking about is people that say one thing and do the other,

I am not talking about people that aren't interested

Yes setting up a date and not showing up is not nice..... But there is plenty of people who dont care what you think and they will do what ever they feel like.... including setting up a date and not showing up because they never wanted to meet in the first place.... they find some kind of satisfaction in having the other party going on what they think is a date and then getting disappointed....!

 

[single2mingle001]

Yes setting up a date and not showing up is not nice..... But there is plenty of people who dont care what you think and they will do what ever they feel like.... including setting up a date and not showing up because they never wanted to meet in the first place.... they find some kind of satisfaction in having the other party going on what they think is a date and then getting disappointed....!

I don't believe it's the majority, based on my experience it's between 25-33%, to get around I set up multiple dates, but when I cancel, I make sure to let others know. setting up a date takes time and attention, there is no way someone would invest that much time with every individual

 

[atantonov]

I don't believe it's the majority, based on my experience it's between 25-33%, to get around I set up multiple dates, but when I cancel, I make sure to let others know. setting up a date takes time and attention, there is no way someone would invest that much time with every individual

We all make decision as we see fit... we all play by our own rules, we all have opinions...

 

[single2mingle001]

We all make decision as we see fit... we all play by our own rules, we all have opinions...

i agree

 

[deal201]

Respect goes both ways. I've been stood up by 3 different couples in the last month. I've had one bitch me out for not being willing to meet at 1am on a Wednesday night when I have to work in the morning. I've had one be an hour late, then show up, then disappear for a half hour. This whole damn lifestyle is about trust and respect. And it seems to be tough to find on both sides of the game.

 

[Criticalkink]

My wife and I have lived a wonderful hotwife marriage for over 20 years. I am a 100% Stag who has loved every minute of her playing with other men.
She has always made the decisions on who she sleeps with, her body, her rules.

Rule number one:
She has never and will never use the word or associate with any man who refers to themselves as a Bull. I must add that she hates the use of ANY labels. She’s bi but she will only say “I am who I am”

Rule number two:
When she sleeps with a man she’s allowing the man the pleasure of her body not the other way around. Any disrespect, on her or me, and it’s over.

I was talking to my wife about this and she said that I misunderstood her (evidently for years,lol) She said she has no problem with the word Bull and it’s meanings. She just doesnt like it when people label others whether it’s positive or not. Each person is an individual and they deserve your respect for living their life the way they choose and not bending to the narrow minded public at large.