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hello there,
im dan, from malaysia. nice to meet another cuckold. too few of us around really. am writing to you to give you some advice. i was in a similar situation and i somehow succeeded in convincing my wife.
the thing here is that you need to take things 1 step at a time. cuckolding is not something you should rush into
i succeeded in convincing my wife so i thought i would try and help you out, fulfilling your dreams of cuckolding.
first, the impt question is whether she is able to fantasise. this is never an easy question to answer as it involves many factors. most impt of which is whether she IS ABLE to at the very least, fantasise with you about being a hotwife. THIS IS KEY.
if she has not, then it is a harder hill to climb.
1. there are some things that you must first learn - patience and persistence. these are your tools to help you achieve this.
2. never push her. you must be very very patient in getting your fantasy to be a reality. always let her think she is in control of it. this means that if she does not want to talk or fantasise anymore, stop. respect her wishes. start again another time. but be persistent. she will give in eventually.
this is a slow and steady process and your Mrs MUST always have the feeling that she is in control. ALWAYS! This reassures her that should she want to stop, IT WILL BE STOPPED. only then will she trust you.
3. AGAIN REMEMBER that the focus here is your wife. not you and what you desire her to do for you (please understand this as they will learn the truth).
this was one of the methods i used on my wife......
my mrs loves to suck cock. she really loves it as she can go for an hour or more just sucking on one. and you will only enjoy having your cock sucked IF the person sucking enjoys what she is doing. i should know this as im her hubby. she loves to swallow too. and not the porn you watch type where they spit it out! she love to taste it and swallow (i suppose this was the thing that turned me bi too as i loved watching her do it so much that i too got hooked).
so during my convincing her to join a swing party, i bought a vibrator and when she was sucking my cock, i used the vibrator on her. now when she sucks she is in heaven and then applying the vibe on her pussy was the ultimate for her. i used that moment to fantasise that it was a mutual friends. an american guy that we knew (she is partial to orang putih). this method me a great deal in convincing her that another cock or cocks would be great in our sex life. so i did this time and time again. this was the persistent part. as long as she likes sex, half the battle is won.
about 4th month - the reluctance soon gave way. and she began to allow me to talk to her about a third person.
about 8th month - then i began to ask her things. and she answered!!
with this i knew i was doing the right things.
10th month - while having sex SHE asked for the vibrator.
after a year of some hard work she finally agreed to join in a swing party. and the rest is history. this was the patience part.
she enjoyed herself at the party. and it was enjoyable to watch her too.
so keep plugging at it. always remember that the focus is on her. not you.
we began with swinging, then moved gradually (as my cuckold side began to emerge) to threesomes and finally cuckolding. this is something i really enjoy. i especially watching the action up close (like in fucklicking) as it is so intoxicating.
you are right on all counts that one should non-pushy. she needs to be in control. so let her. lose the battle but win the war.
dan
im dan, from malaysia. nice to meet another cuckold. too few of us around really. am writing to you to give you some advice. i was in a similar situation and i somehow succeeded in convincing my wife.
the thing here is that you need to take things 1 step at a time. cuckolding is not something you should rush into
i succeeded in convincing my wife so i thought i would try and help you out, fulfilling your dreams of cuckolding.
first, the impt question is whether she is able to fantasise. this is never an easy question to answer as it involves many factors. most impt of which is whether she IS ABLE to at the very least, fantasise with you about being a hotwife. THIS IS KEY.
if she has not, then it is a harder hill to climb.
1. there are some things that you must first learn - patience and persistence. these are your tools to help you achieve this.
2. never push her. you must be very very patient in getting your fantasy to be a reality. always let her think she is in control of it. this means that if she does not want to talk or fantasise anymore, stop. respect her wishes. start again another time. but be persistent. she will give in eventually.
this is a slow and steady process and your Mrs MUST always have the feeling that she is in control. ALWAYS! This reassures her that should she want to stop, IT WILL BE STOPPED. only then will she trust you.
3. AGAIN REMEMBER that the focus here is your wife. not you and what you desire her to do for you (please understand this as they will learn the truth).
this was one of the methods i used on my wife......
my mrs loves to suck cock. she really loves it as she can go for an hour or more just sucking on one. and you will only enjoy having your cock sucked IF the person sucking enjoys what she is doing. i should know this as im her hubby. she loves to swallow too. and not the porn you watch type where they spit it out! she love to taste it and swallow (i suppose this was the thing that turned me bi too as i loved watching her do it so much that i too got hooked).
so during my convincing her to join a swing party, i bought a vibrator and when she was sucking my cock, i used the vibrator on her. now when she sucks she is in heaven and then applying the vibe on her pussy was the ultimate for her. i used that moment to fantasise that it was a mutual friends. an american guy that we knew (she is partial to orang putih). this method me a great deal in convincing her that another cock or cocks would be great in our sex life. so i did this time and time again. this was the persistent part. as long as she likes sex, half the battle is won.
about 4th month - the reluctance soon gave way. and she began to allow me to talk to her about a third person.
about 8th month - then i began to ask her things. and she answered!!
with this i knew i was doing the right things.
10th month - while having sex SHE asked for the vibrator.
after a year of some hard work she finally agreed to join in a swing party. and the rest is history. this was the patience part.
she enjoyed herself at the party. and it was enjoyable to watch her too.
so keep plugging at it. always remember that the focus is on her. not you.
we began with swinging, then moved gradually (as my cuckold side began to emerge) to threesomes and finally cuckolding. this is something i really enjoy. i especially watching the action up close (like in fucklicking) as it is so intoxicating.
you are right on all counts that one should non-pushy. she needs to be in control. so let her. lose the battle but win the war.
dan
Let me tell you my story. We are Arab Muslims. You know what it is like when it comes to the idea of being a cuckold and living a cuckold lifestyle. Religion forbids such ideas. I got married at the age of 20. My wife was only 15. We have been married for 12 years. I am 33 and she is 27. We are from conservative and religious families in For the first five years, I convinced her and made her fantasize about another man, but she did not want to despise me, as she believed that another man having sex with her was strange and not worthy of me. After that, in the next three years, the matter developed and she began to learn more about the life of openness. i succeeded in breaking many customs and traditions and made her greatly enjoy the fantasy of bulls when having sex with her. She no longer reaches climax except through a scenario where a violent stud with a big penis has violent sex with her and slaps her. In fact, I was very patient in waiting eight years to convince her to have three-way sex or with a bull like the one in her imagination. There is a recurring mistake I made, which was that I convinced her that the cuckold lifestyle was something I enjoyed and that she should do this to make me happy. I did not let her control. Sometimes she would get angry with me. Because I pushed her to do that by having real sex with a bull. After eight years of trying to convince her, I thought of a new idea, which was to be a submissive cuckold. She enjoyed being in control during sex. She used to make me lick her ass and her feet, and when she was horny, she would say, “I want a bull right away.” By satisfying my sexual desires, you don't deserve my sexy body. This matter went on for a whole year, and the successful way to convince her was for her to be the dominant one and for me to be the submissive cuckold. Finally, after nine years, I agreed to meet a bull and have sex together, and after finishing, I would lick her pussy and feet in front of the bull. I was very happy. Suddenly, before the date of meeting the bull, a strange development occurred. She rejected this idea forever, she said. I told her why. I begged her and tried repeatedly over the course of 3 months, but she rejected the idea and claimed that it was not compatible with her religious beliefs and that it was a grave sin. Since then, I have given up. Yes, I have given up, and for about two years, I no longer talk to her about cuckolding, or about a bull, or any other scenarios. We just have normal sex. I now feel very disappointed because I could not convince my wife to live the cuckold life that I dream of. Sorry I was talking too much. lol
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i used google translate so i apologise for the delay.
i understand your predicament.
the most important thing i can say is to keep trying. she already has begun fantasising so this means half the battle is won. she has entertained the thoughts.
remember, this is not something that is just going to fall on your lap. you need to work very hard at it.
best of luck to you.
dan
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