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hello there,
im dan, from malaysia. nice to meet another cuckold. too few of us around really. am writing to you to give you some advice. i was in a similar situation and i somehow succeeded in convincing my wife.
the thing here is that you need to take things 1 step at a time. cuckolding is not something you should rush into
i succeeded in convincing my wife so i thought i would try and help you out, fulfilling your dreams of cuckolding.
first, the impt question is whether she is able to fantasise. this is never an easy question to answer as it involves many factors. most impt of which is whether she IS ABLE to at the very least, fantasise with you about being a hotwife. THIS IS KEY.
if she has not, then it is a harder hill to climb.
1. there are some things that you must first learn - patience and persistence. these are your tools to help you achieve this.
2. never push her. you must be very very patient in getting your fantasy to be a reality. always let her think she is in control of it. this means that if she does not want to talk or fantasise anymore, stop. respect her wishes. start again another time. but be persistent. she will give in eventually.
this is a slow and steady process and your Mrs MUST always have the feeling that she is in control. ALWAYS! This reassures her that should she want to stop, IT WILL BE STOPPED. only then will she trust you.
3. AGAIN REMEMBER that the focus here is your wife. not you and what you desire her to do for you (please understand this as they will learn the truth).
this was one of the methods i used on my wife......
my mrs loves to suck cock. she really loves it as she can go for an hour or more just sucking on one. and you will only enjoy having your cock sucked IF the person sucking enjoys what she is doing. i should know this as im her hubby. she loves to swallow too. and not the porn you watch type where they spit it out! she love to taste it and swallow (i suppose this was the thing that turned me bi too as i loved watching her do it so much that i too got hooked).
so during my convincing her to join a swing party, i bought a vibrator and when she was sucking my cock, i used the vibrator on her. now when she sucks she is in heaven and then applying the vibe on her pussy was the ultimate for her. i used that moment to fantasise that it was a mutual friends. an american guy that we knew (she is partial to orang putih). this method me a great deal in convincing her that another cock or cocks would be great in our sex life. so i did this time and time again. this was the persistent part. as long as she likes sex, half the battle is won.
about 4th month - the reluctance soon gave way. and she began to allow me to talk to her about a third person.
about 8th month - then i began to ask her things. and she answered!!
with this i knew i was doing the right things.
10th month - while having sex SHE asked for the vibrator.
after a year of some hard work she finally agreed to join in a swing party. and the rest is history. this was the patience part.
she enjoyed herself at the party. and it was enjoyable to watch her too.
so keep plugging at it. always remember that the focus is on her. not you.
we began with swinging, then moved gradually (as my cuckold side began to emerge) to threesomes and finally cuckolding. this is something i really enjoy. i especially watching the action up close (like in fucklicking) as it is so intoxicating.
you are right on all counts that one should non-pushy. she needs to be in control. so let her. lose the battle but win the war.
dan
im dan, from malaysia. nice to meet another cuckold. too few of us around really. am writing to you to give you some advice. i was in a similar situation and i somehow succeeded in convincing my wife.
the thing here is that you need to take things 1 step at a time. cuckolding is not something you should rush into
i succeeded in convincing my wife so i thought i would try and help you out, fulfilling your dreams of cuckolding.
first, the impt question is whether she is able to fantasise. this is never an easy question to answer as it involves many factors. most impt of which is whether she IS ABLE to at the very least, fantasise with you about being a hotwife. THIS IS KEY.
if she has not, then it is a harder hill to climb.
1. there are some things that you must first learn - patience and persistence. these are your tools to help you achieve this.
2. never push her. you must be very very patient in getting your fantasy to be a reality. always let her think she is in control of it. this means that if she does not want to talk or fantasise anymore, stop. respect her wishes. start again another time. but be persistent. she will give in eventually.
this is a slow and steady process and your Mrs MUST always have the feeling that she is in control. ALWAYS! This reassures her that should she want to stop, IT WILL BE STOPPED. only then will she trust you.
3. AGAIN REMEMBER that the focus here is your wife. not you and what you desire her to do for you (please understand this as they will learn the truth).
this was one of the methods i used on my wife......
my mrs loves to suck cock. she really loves it as she can go for an hour or more just sucking on one. and you will only enjoy having your cock sucked IF the person sucking enjoys what she is doing. i should know this as im her hubby. she loves to swallow too. and not the porn you watch type where they spit it out! she love to taste it and swallow (i suppose this was the thing that turned me bi too as i loved watching her do it so much that i too got hooked).
so during my convincing her to join a swing party, i bought a vibrator and when she was sucking my cock, i used the vibrator on her. now when she sucks she is in heaven and then applying the vibe on her pussy was the ultimate for her. i used that moment to fantasise that it was a mutual friends. an american guy that we knew (she is partial to orang putih). this method me a great deal in convincing her that another cock or cocks would be great in our sex life. so i did this time and time again. this was the persistent part. as long as she likes sex, half the battle is won.
about 4th month - the reluctance soon gave way. and she began to allow me to talk to her about a third person.
about 8th month - then i began to ask her things. and she answered!!
with this i knew i was doing the right things.
10th month - while having sex SHE asked for the vibrator.
after a year of some hard work she finally agreed to join in a swing party. and the rest is history. this was the patience part.
she enjoyed herself at the party. and it was enjoyable to watch her too.
so keep plugging at it. always remember that the focus is on her. not you.
we began with swinging, then moved gradually (as my cuckold side began to emerge) to threesomes and finally cuckolding. this is something i really enjoy. i especially watching the action up close (like in fucklicking) as it is so intoxicating.
you are right on all counts that one should non-pushy. she needs to be in control. so let her. lose the battle but win the war.
dan
واو، أنت مدهش حقا يا صديقي. دعني أخبرك قصتي. نحن عرب مسلمون. أنت تعرف كيف يكون الأمر عندما يتعلق الأمر بفكرة كونك ديوثًا وتعيش أسلوب حياة ديوث. الدين يحرم مثل هذه الأفكار تزوجت عندما كان عمري 20 عامًا. وكان عمر زوجتي 15 عامًا فقط. لقد مضى على زواجنا 12 عامًا. عمري 33 عامًا وعمرها 27 عامًا. زوجتي جميلة جدًا. تتمتع بجمال عربي ساحر وهي مثيرة للغاية. نحن من عائلات محافظة ومتدينة في السنوات الخمس الأولى. أقنعتها وجعلتها تتخيل رجلاً آخر، لكنها لم تكن تريد أن تحتقرني، إذ كانت تعتقد أن ممارسة رجل آخر معها الجنس أمر غريب ولا يليق بي. وبعد ذلك، وفي السنوات الثلاث التالية، تطور الأمر وبدأت تتعرف أكثر على حياة الانفتاح. لقد نجحت في كسر العديد من العادات والتقاليد وجعلتها تستمتع كثيراً بخيال الثيران عند ممارسة الجنس معها. لم تعد تصل إلى ذروتها إلا من خلال سيناريو حيث يمارس معها عشيق عنيف بقضيب كبير جنسًا عنيفًا ويصفعها. في الواقع، كنت صبورة جدًا في انتظار ثماني سنوات لإقناعها بممارسة الجنس الثلاثي أو مع ثور مثل الذي في مخيلتها. هناك خطأ متكرر ارتكبته، وهو أنني أقنعتها بأن أسلوب الحياة الديوث كان شيئًا أستمتع به وأنه يجب عليها أن تفعل ذلك لتجعلني سعيدًا. لم أسمح لها بالسيطرة. في بعض الأحيان كانت تغضب مني. لأنني دفعتها للقيام بذلك عن طريق ممارسة الجنس الحقيقي مع ثور. وبعد ثماني سنوات من محاولتي إقناعها، فكرت في فكرة جديدة، وهي أن أكون ديوثًا خاضعًا. لقد استمتعت بالسيطرة أثناء ممارسة الجنس. كانت تجعلني ألعق مؤخرتها وقدميها، وعندما تشتهي تقول: "أريد ثورًا على الفور". بإشباع رغباتي الجنسية، أنت لا تستحق جسدي المثير. واستمر هذا الأمر لمدة عام كامل، وكانت الطريقة الناجحة لإقناعها هي أن تكون هي المسيطرة وأنا الديوث الخاضع. وأخيرا، بعد تسع سنوات، وافقت على مقابلة الثور وممارسة الجنس معا، وبعد الانتهاء، كنت ألعق كسها وقدميها أمام الثور. كنت سعيدا جدا. وفجأة، وقبل موعد لقاء الثور، حدث تطور غريب. وقالت إنها رفضت هذه الفكرة إلى الأبد. قلت لها لماذا. توسلت إليها وحاولت مراراً وتكراراً على مدار 3 أشهر، إلا أنها رفضت الفكرة وادعت أنها لا تتوافق مع معتقداتها الدينية وأنها خطيئة عظيمة. منذ ذلك الحين، لقد استسلمت. نعم لقد استسلمت، ومنذ حوالي عامين لم أعد أتحدث معها عن الديوث، أو عن الثور، أو أي سيناريو آخر. نحن فقط نمارس الجنس الطبيعي. أشعر الآن بخيبة أمل كبيرة لأنني لم أتمكن من إقناع زوجتي بأن تعيش حياة الديوث التي أحلم بها. آسف كنت أتحدث كثيرا. مضحك جداً
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