WOW, that’s great!!!! … for you. For the rest of us who didn’t make the cut, you’ll have to forgive us since we aren’t part of the secret club. All the more reason to doubt this BS. And the OP can whine again about the bad people making mean comments, but it’s his own fault.
Realtor and wife
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John and we lost touch for last few weeks, we built a good rapport but then suddenly he left the town and stopped responding. I got a surprising call from him last night and he has asked if we all can meet this weekend or next week.
I have still not asked Debbie, she was a hurt when he ghosted us and I have a decision to make now.
I have still not asked Debbie, she was a hurt when he ghosted us and I have a decision to make now.
On one hand, i know he behaved like an asshole. Debbie was attracted to him and he knew that. I doubt a man won't be attracted to her. I guess he was already seeing a girl and disappered with her.
Now, he is back. It makes me wonder what Debbie will do
Now, he is back. It makes me wonder what Debbie will do
Left you a message and would be interested in hearing more about their adventure from the Hotel!
Austintex69
Male
Is this something you both already doing? How would be fun if she never tells you what happened.
Fun is different for different people. Also, how did you assume she will never tell me what happened?
Austintex69
Male
They got really close about 3 months ago before he disappeared. I am surprised he reached out after being an asshole
I will keep my non interfering stance and will let her know tonight that he called and asked to meet. It will be up to her to decide what she wants
Sent this msg to John this morning
“John, Debbie was very hurt when you stopped replying to us. The manner you ignored her was very disrespectful. I think you shouldn’t bother her anymore”
His reply
“Do you mind if I directly talk to her? I will try to explain what I was going through”
My reply
“I would advice against calling her, text her if you really want”
His reply
“Thank you”
“John, Debbie was very hurt when you stopped replying to us. The manner you ignored her was very disrespectful. I think you shouldn’t bother her anymore”
His reply
“Do you mind if I directly talk to her? I will try to explain what I was going through”
My reply
“I would advice against calling her, text her if you really want”
His reply
“Thank you”
For realtors whose primary income comes from selling houses, John my be feeling that his time is being wasted. He has shown you numerous homes and entered no negotiations. The time he has spent with you and Debbie, he might have spent with other clients and made sales, after it was a hot market. I can't actually speak for John, but is this a possibility?
He did and she called him back. No further details.
Got this msg from John today
“David, I chatted with Debbie and she is understandably mad at me. However, I am confident I can pacify her. But before I do that I want to ensure you are OK. I remember you were fine me getting close to Debbie when we met 4 months ago, are you still good with that?”
“David, I chatted with Debbie and she is understandably mad at me. However, I am confident I can pacify her. But before I do that I want to ensure you are OK. I remember you were fine me getting close to Debbie when we met 4 months ago, are you still good with that?”
Austintex69
Male
I think John need to take the hint and go for it, this probably will be the most exciting thing to happen to him in a long time and a story for the ages.
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