This is tough one. My wife enjoys my dick because its attached to me and enjoys the closeness but from the pure sexual feeling and making her feel like a woman as she calls it, she rates me 1 and lovers 10. She almost is apologetic about it, "Sorry honey, but it feels great for five seconds and then i dont feel you anymore." i know she loves me, and i have a tongue that works wonders, but i know that cock wise, i am not bringing much pleasure to anyone, and i am 5" x 4" - too thin mostly.