The question is an interesting one, and something I ask myself often. I'm a 100% straight Male and in no circumstance would I seek out or engage in any bi play with a male but when playing with a cuck couple I find it highly arousing to involve the cuck in bi acts. forsing the hubby to clean my cock, fuck-lick or guide me into his wife is a clear act of dominance to me and that exertion of dominance is very stimulating.
I'm not into degrading the husband unless they specifically call that out as a turn on for the both of them. Respect is given to both her and him but I also need to be acknowledged as the dominate figure in the room.
I think a lot of men who have impulses towards being cuckolded could rightly be described as the flip side of this same coin.
-Not gay, probably not even really bi either, but submissive sexually in a way that makes them want to find an outlet to demonstrate it to their wives, at least sometimes, in certain situations.
-Willing, perhaps even eager, to defer to another man who’s more talented and more naturally alpha in the bedroom, giving him the primary penetrative responsibilities for pleasing and satisfying his wife. Basically, being the one who gets her off
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-Seeing it as a win for everyone if she…
A) has that “next-level” sex, and even more importantly…
B) comes to understand its availability -
and her husband’s adaptability - in their sex life.
-Situationally prepared to do things, maybe even ”bi” things in the interaction to further or elevate the experience his wife is having with the other man.
I think some of us probably can’t quite express it, or don’t know how, or perhaps are simply afraid to. Here’s to overcoming our fears.