Quality of sex when wife has emotional connection with other man vs someone new?

I am the wife answering this question. My first lover and I had a chemistry that even our friends could see. The sex with him and Diver was amazing and the sex with some of our friends was good but not as intense. Over the years I have had a few lovers where we had a “chemistry” and it made for incredible sex
 
I am the wife answering this question. My first lover and I had a chemistry that even our friends could see. The sex with him and Diver was amazing and the sex with some of our friends was good but not as intense. Over the years I have had a few lovers where we had a “chemistry” and it made for incredible sex
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I am the wife answering this question. My first lover and I had a chemistry that even our friends could see. The sex with him and Diver was amazing and the sex with some of our friends was good but not as intense. Over the years I have had a few lovers where we had a “chemistry” and it made for incredible sex
The chemistry you speak of is where my hotwife always says it was incredible. Over the years she has mostly focused on finding and keeping those best relationships…her current will b 3 years in spring. And there connection is strong that they are doing a week in the Caribbean in the spring. And they are an interracial couple so they will fully enjoy their relationship making new friends. I will await whatever photos or stories she wishes to share. But for that week I will b in total cuck life thinking all the time about what they are up to.
 
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We currently have 3 long term guys who I fuck.And often my husband will let me do my "pub" routine where he watches me get chatted up from across the room then comes and joins us if I give him the "this one please nod".
It's hard finding guys that are OK with the stag/vixen ..hotwife life.
Then you have to get to know them make sure they are clean etc..which takes time.
And you would be surprised of the amount of men who are not into threesomes.
But when I fuck of our regulars ,there is a connection of course there is ,it's a mixture of lust and excitement and pure sexual adrenaline.
Plus my husband thinks of them as friends and we often go out all together for a drink and a laugh.
He is always involved and 9 out of 10 times joins in .He likes to see me go wild and as he calls it "cock ......".
But I only love my husband,the guys are just like sex toys to me .I like cock xx 😈
 
We currently have 3 long term guys who I fuck.And often my husband will let me do my "pub" routine where he watches me get chatted up from across the room then comes and joins us if I give him the "this one please nod".
It's hard finding guys that are OK with the stag/vixen ..hotwife life.
Then you have to get to know them make sure they are clean etc..which takes time.
And you would be surprised of the amount of men who are not into threesomes.
But when I fuck of our regulars ,there is a connection of course there is ,it's a mixture of lust and excitement and pure sexual adrenaline.
Plus my husband thinks of them as friends and we often go out all together for a drink and a laugh.
He is always involved and 9 out of 10 times joins in .He likes to see me go wild and as he calls it "cock ......".
But I only love my husband,the guys are just like sex toys to me .I like cock xx 😈
If they are Alive walking talking sex toys do you ever get more than one of them at the same time?
 
I am the wife answering this question. My first lover and I had a chemistry that even our friends could see. The sex with him and Diver was amazing and the sex with some of our friends was good but not as intense. Over the years I have had a few lovers where we had a “chemistry” and it made for incredible sex
My second lover was my boss for almost three years and again we had a chemistry at the time Diver only knew I fucked him once a week but it was usually like 3-4 times. Before you ask no Diver didn't suffer his office mate was a very attractive lady and he got into her pants several times a week as well. I only stopped fucking him when Diver and I decided to have children. There was a very strong chemistry between Diver and his office mate and some how she got pregnant at the same time. We found out later she cut off her husband until she was pregnant.
 
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We've done this with 2 different guys, one guy many many times, 3 times with the other.
3 time guy I thought was a good fit but wife really wasn't into him.
Regular guy is the guy we started with. NOT the type guy my wife finds attractive. I don't really think about an emotional connection but I'm sure it's there. She REALLY enjoys sex with him. We only see him for sex fun.
Watching is a much different perspective so it's hard to compare what she does and feels with him. He has a bigger dick for sure and she very obviously likes how they have sex. She's never said anything if he's better just that it's different with him.
When he's with us she's a different woman, VERY sexual and fucks us both like crazy.
my wife had 2 regular guys. one was my best friend and her first guy we shared her with. after the 3rd time we all hooked up they had their own routine. Our other regular guy was a young guy who worked for me. He was her favorite. He used her like he owned her. I remember one night I woke up to the sound of my wife screaming and he was hitting it from behind so hard I thought he was hurting her. I asked her if she was all right? She said Oh god yes.. I don't want him to stop. He didn't. Many times I would tell him to stop at my house when I sent him out for parts and when he came back ,he would fill me in how he fucked her. They really had a attraction.
 
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