Pussy free

I am pussyfree, past March the 14th It was 13 years that I am pussyfree! In the beginning it was beacause I was denied by my grirlfriend, then it was because I agreed to be in chastity and it stayed that way because my penis did not get hard anymore. But in that proces I started to accept it and even like it. In my opinion as long as you fuck your girlfriend/wife while she is fucking other men there is always a kind of competition, jealousy. Once you are pussyfree because you agree to it or because you are not able to fuck her anymore or not good enough in satisfying her through PIV it is important that you find a way to accept this mentally. Once you can this and that you get satisfied in an other way sexually, what is important because otherwise you get frustrated what will end up in ruining your relationship with her. The best thing to me is that being pussyfree takes out the stress to perform and the responsability to have ti satisfy her sexually.
I agree with this.
 
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I was pussy free and chastitied although the regression was stimulating: equal sharing with her boytoy, condom while he was bareback, pussy free but oral, pussy free but hand jobbed, pussy free and I had to stimulate myself
 
How many here are pussy free? Are you happy about it? What's the best thing about being pussy free?
I’ve been pussy free in the past (I fractured my spine when I was younger and sometimes I’m unable to have sex) we’ve made it part of our sex life. My inability to have sex for periods of time was, if I’m being totally honest, was one of my main reasons why I wanted to open up our relationship. When I’m unable to have sex knowing my wife is still having an amazing sex life is incredible and I get so much pleasure in her pleasure. I’m able to have sex more often now, but that hasn’t changed anything in our relationship/sex life. I will always get so much pleasure knowing my wife is able to fulfil all her sexual desires, that doesn’t change whether or not I’m able to have a sex life.
 
I’ve been pussy free in the past (I fractured my spine when I was younger and sometimes I’m unable to have sex) we’ve made it part of our sex life. My inability to have sex for periods of time was, if I’m being totally honest, was one of my main reasons why I wanted to open up our relationship. When I’m unable to have sex knowing my wife is still having an amazing sex life is incredible and I get so much pleasure in her pleasure. I’m able to have sex more often now, but that hasn’t changed anything in our relationship/sex life. I will always get so much pleasure knowing my wife is able to fulfil all her sexual desires, that doesn’t change whether or not I’m able to have a sex life.
I completely understand if you have a true physical disability or condition that precludes you from providing the sexual satisfaction that you can't give her. In cases like yours, it has to be extremely disheartening to YOU that YOU can't provide that for her. I have serious doubts that if you did not have physical issues that you happily would accept being "pussy free".

Wanting her to be sexually satisfied is often seen here as a noble. Witnessing your partner being unfulfilled is depressing especially if you blame yourself for it. Naturally people that truly love each other want their partner to be happy and satisfied. Having a condition or physical disability doesn't mean that you no longer have sexual desires and no longer want some sort of sexual satisfaction for yourself. I'm in a monogamous relationship with my wife and I know that we will probably never move into a non-monogamous lifestyle. That doesn't mean I don't still want it.

On this site being "pussy free" is most often a pseudo form of torment/restriction for someone that is fully capable. Sure, they maybe physically under endowed or lack stamina but that doesn't mean that they don't want sex too (in whatever form that is). Coming to the realization that you are incapable of giving your spouse what they need is not one that is arrived at with joy and happiness. No one says, "I'm so glad I can't make her happy!"

Likewise, wives that TRULY love their spouses can't just say, "I'm so glad he realized he can't get the job done! Now I can seek my own satisfaction and focus on just me." They know that saying something like that will be perceived as being self centered and selfish. It's much more acceptable to blame it on someone else and their condition. Whether it's the wife or the husband there is no joy in being incapable. Far too often this feels like kicking a man when he's down, piling on, adding insult to injury.

No one seems to want to say anything about carrying the mental burden associated with the inadequacy. Instead it's much more easy to replace that inadequacy with an alternative. That does nothing for the anguish and crushed sexual hopes that a spouse STILL carries. Replacing the inadequacy and neglecting the anguish and crushed sexual hopes seems insensitive and not characteristic of a REAL loving relationship.

If a husband truly enjoys being "pussy free" then that is something he WANTS! If that's what he wants it then is he truly being denied? If he REALLY does want sex with his wife then he's in denial about his denial. For the men that are into this kink I always imagine men saying, "There's nothing like the nothing I get from my wife!"
 
A very strange month has been this last one. I have been pussy free and didnt even wanked. But we have been both horny all day and night. The reason: I have stayed with my hotwife at her hometown for the first time in years and we played this game. She introduced me to each and every man she has fucked in the past when staying there alone, even her youth boyfriends and lovers. It was wonderful to watch her finding any excuse to meet them and I had to use the encounter to find out if she is still fucking him, if it has been a long time affair, a short or a long one, if she enjoyed his cock or not, if he was hung or not, if she fucked him before we met or after, before we married or after. Oh man it was so exciting but we were so much into the game that sex between us simply disappeared. We are back home now, hope she wants to fuck me soon because I am hard all day long and wake up with an unbearable boner.
 
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Been pussy free since 2008. It started as her denying me, then i turned around and told her no for a few years, then it just went away. I got over weight and she was no longer attracted to me, i got so big, i couldnt really get hard. Then we opened marriage in 2019 and she has had fun, and im glad for her. Sometimes i wish things were different, but they aren't and this is the reality.
 
A very strange month has been this last one. I have been pussy free and didnt even wanked. But we have been both horny all day and night. The reason: I have stayed with my hotwife at her hometown for the first time in years and we played this game. She introduced me to each and every man she has fucked in the past when staying there alone, even her youth boyfriends and lovers. It was wonderful to watch her finding any excuse to meet them and I had to use the encounter to find out if she is still fucking him, if it has been a long time affair, a short or a long one, if she enjoyed his cock or not, if he was hung or not, if she fucked him before we met or after, before we married or after. Oh man it was so exciting but we were so much into the game that sex between us simply disappeared. We are back home now, hope she wants to fuck me soon because I am hard all day long and wake up with an unbearable boner.
It gets easier the longer you are pussy free. It is hard when her pussy and tits are so close but no touching.
 
I'm pussy free because my wife just doesn't want sex anymore. I fantasise that she's getting it somewhere else. I make do with wanking and sucking guys off.
There's a huge difference in being pussy free because your wife/gf doesn't want to use her own pussy for even herself and being cut off from a wife that still wants to use hers, just not with you. There's nothing as depressing as a wife that doesn't think about or need sex. I've been there with my wife before and truthfully I'm still not convinced she does need sex.
 
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There are advantages to being pussy free if your penis is too small to properly sexually satisfy your wife. It takes the pressure off trying to sexually please my wife, because I am not equipped between my legs to do so. Phil

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Without the burden of responsibility or pressure of satisfying. your wife, what is your favorite and most satisfying way to cum now?
 
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