I like to play. I like the majority of men I have spent any sexual time with. I have never once thought that I should charge for it. That would make it more like a job and as an employee of whomever is paying. That would also put you more under control of who is paying and you lose your say. I like to keep it fun mutually.
Now, I have absolutely nothing against anyone who charges for a service no matter what that service is. I think we all know there is a demand for it and thus, there needs to be a relief to that demand.
On the Island of Batam, in Indonesia which is just a two hour ferry ride from Singapore, you would be amazed at the number of wives and GFs who offer paid for sex. In Singapore, a girl will cost you a couple hundred dollars for a short time plus any room charges. In Batam, around 25 to 50 dollars for all night or any part of it. They normally toss in a 3 dollar dinner and share their free breakfast at a hotel. What I found to be rather interesting was watching the girls come to work at the hotels on the back of their motor bikes driven by their husbands and boyfriends. Hubby and I talked with a few of the guys and girls and found that in many cases, the wife is the only income for the family. Not uncommon here for husbands to stop working and let the wives support them but that is another social/cultural problem here. Odd thing is that the majority of the population here is Muslim and some of these girls arrive in hijab only to go change into short skirts and letting their hair out. Talking to some girls, it is the only job they can do. No education, no learned skills and many have one ....... The guys who brought them sit around smoking and talking until around 11 PM when if by that time their girls have not gotten a male, they go home. My husband and I walked through a patio area at our hotel and were both propositioned either separately or as a couple. It was tempting but re passed.
I was sitting in a Batam restaurant with a female friend and every time someone from Singapore walked in, we were taken as sex workers. Most just think that if you are female, sitting anywhere in Batam, you must be looking for a man to hire you.