Photos & Videos when she is with another man

my wife and i have an open relationship for quite a while now and it turns me on to see her getting touched & fucked by other men.

so every time she is dating someone else, i ask her if she could send me a picture of when they are doing it.

usually she is not shy at all - we had multiple outdoor photo shootings and even made a MMMF porn.
anyhow i've only got pictures from her once or twice though as she thinks this would ruin the evening with the other guys and might ruin their mood 🙁

so since a few years now all i ask from her for my birthday or for christmas was not to give me any presents but instead finally give me a good show on video, when she is with another man - no luck so far

for the men: do you guys get videos from your wife and her lover?
for the ladys: or do you girls like to record yourself or do you fully agree with my wife on why she is refusing this?

and just because [insert some reason here]: (so basically just out of curiosity)
would you post some videos you've send to your men / received from your wifes/GFs?