into self-caging as an alpha with a shared hotwife. Really have come to enjoy how it feels and wearing during foreplay. Glad to chat with anyone that is caged, self-caged or with questions.
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no role play. mostly foreplay. wore it recently while sharing her then removed for my fun.
I'm curious what the pretense is overall, like whose idea was the cage, and what about the act of wearing the cage gets you off?
i stumbled upon male chastity at some point and something about it made me curious. It wasn't anything about the femdom aspect but more about it being a toy and a kink and, what i didn't know then but do now, was the exhibitionist aspect of it. so i bought one and tried it and liked how it felt when on. Even my wife was surprised the first time i wore it and surprised her. Then i wore it once listening from the other room while her FWB came over and it felt so intense and erotic. The swelling, dripping etc. Once he left i went to join her and she was so turned on from how much i was dripping she started licking it from the tip of the cage as i was continuing to drip. It got to the point i had to take it off and fuck her and i came so hard and she was so turned on. So - it became something of a foreplay thing for me and us. And - i've found another side of it that turned me on was the exhibitionist aspect and getting turned on about others knowing or wanting to see me caged cock. I don't know if that explains it or not but i've realized that the broad "sissy/femdom/beta/cuck" label is not all-inclusive. I have no issue wearing it and watching her play or joining MFM. We're simply not into the cuck/bull concept but have some kinks as does everyone. Does that help answer your question?
Hey thanks for the detail, it makes perfect sense. Every cuckold is different and enjoys different paradigms, to use your word 🙂 I always enjoy learning about other peoples interests, sounds like you have a really great setup. Many of us are not so fortunate with our SO's.
The labels are what mis-aligns everything IMO. I’m not a duck as my wife doesn’t decide solely by herself when she/we play. I’m more a stag / vixen bu the hard core couples on that extreme would likely be to phobic for MFM. Everything doesn’t fit neatly into a labeled box. Especially our sexual interests.
Yep, I hear you. I also fail to fit neatly into common cuckold categories. It's a very nuanced thing. Probably why I'm so interested in how others play in real life. I've been to a few cuckold parties, and things were definitely way different than what we see in porn, even the homemade porn is mostly scripted or planned/produced, so it's hard to see the reality of it- which is the real turn-on for me.
It’s ultimately whatever your reality is. We had a fun MFM yesterday and i wore my cage for 1/2 of it and it was awesome. I love how intense it makes me cum after i take it off. It’s a foreplay pleaser for me and with a slight twist of exhibitionism I’m realizing. But I’m the same masculine guy I’ve always been. Chastity cock cages do not necessarily equal femdom/sissy tease and denial. Yet that‘s the assumption based on little knowledge other than what’s put up for porn. If more men understood it i’m sure they’d try it and could do so once they realize they don’t have to fit neatly into any box or label. Sexuality is personal and extremely nuanced. So i don’t pay attention to the labels and explain how/why i use and like it and clearly state I’m not into bulls and betas so don’t think wearing this cage changes that.
I think it is gaining mainstream attention and acceptance, with younger men wearing it more as a willful accessory than as a punishment or submissive act.
Obviously by my name I enjoy being more submissive to dominant women, but that doesn't stop me from playing in other fetishes and kinks as well. I could never do the full-time chastity or cuckold lifestyle, there's way too many other rides at the park 🙂
This is so true.
I always say that despite the sterotype every cuck couple is actually different in what they want and can vary across countries probably for cultural reasons.
It's not "just" about pleasure for the wife, the husband needs to get his sort of pleasure out of it, as does the bull/lover. Human beings are all different particularly with their feelings about sex.
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