Regardless of what we women accomplish professionally, socially, culturally, etc. our primary purpose will always be sexual. We may be well educated and haver respectable professions and be active in our communities, but men will view us as sexual objects and use us sexually whenever possible. If your husband isn't adequate for using you hard himself, he will want to watch other men do it instead. They reduce us to our basic animalistic level, when we are wet and warm and desirous of being penetrated deeply and filled with their semen.