You are so right in your statements!
Personally, I have always been rather uninhibited sexually, so age has not changed my preferences that much. But I have found that many other women have, as you put it well, "lost a lot of their old prudish ways". I think that is partially due to the fact that as we age we have less regard for the taboos, restraints, that culture tries to impose, and some of it is the result of a relaxing of constraints overall.
Many of my more prudish peers from my school and college days are now quite active with multiple partners, and I am frequently making new friends of women I meet who share my own libertine outlook.
I think we enjoy pleasures of the flesh more and appreciate them more as we age.
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