🪀TO ALL YOU DEGENERATES MESSAGING ABOUT THE GUY'S COCK SIZE:
I don't know. I didn't whip out a measuring tape nor asked him If I could put tape on it.
How about one of you reach out to him and coordinate a meeting with him, measure it, pull the skin back, or whatever else you plan to do?
I saw it for a second and the best I can remember, it went past his kneecap. It is no surprise after the whole sex with the horse incident.
THE CONCLUSION:
After 8 months of therapy as a couple we are not divorcing, staying in the same property and I am moving into a detached structure on the same piece of land. Obviously, she is free to lead her life and we still enjoy the kids. As part of the therapy and as explained by the therapist, in order for me to start healing my trauma it would help me if I were to develop some interest in her new lifestyle to have some empathy/sympathy, there is a recommendation for me to follow through by showing some interest versus just dismissing it by thinking: I dont like this idea dn I dont want to hear about it. Because it would help both the wife and I. That would be to talk about the whole situation in an effort to show the wife that I care about the reasons that drove her to explore. and it would show the wife I am being compassionate as opposed to judgemental.
The first recommendation was for me to watch a video of them having sex. I thought come on! There is no need for that! simply because it is nonsensical.
According to our counselor, my "trauma" will only start healing when and if I watch a video of them. Another issue I have with the trauma conversation is, I believe I was surprised or maybe shocked about this situation unfolding but I wouldn't call it "trauma". I am not Not traumatized.
Ok fine, I will show compassion as she said. So the video my wife showed me was 21 minutes and I have to admit, I had a range of emotions raging inside and it wasn't fun to watch but after the fact, looking back, I guess it has helped me understand a few of the reasons why she would entertain condoning a behavior of this kind. We are way past the 7-10-year itch, the guy has a large tool, fantastic! My hope is that she enjoys it and she feels her decision was the right one. I want nothing else sexually with her.
The bright side of all this is: I get to hunt my own new vaginas from this point forward.
She complimented me for keeping a level head right off the bat when I suggested that we do not divorce. Plus refraining from litigation. We have remained amicable and I believe we will one day look back and be glad we did. Plus she gets to see every single pussy I bring home. Black, white, Asian and more lol
All the vaginas I craved out there but could never touch. Until the wife handed me a carte blanche. Whoops there's the silver lining.
It is funny how this whole situation took me back to a time when my wife was walking on the country road we live on and heard odd noises then less than a minute later came up on the boy standing on a step stool. He was not on the road but 20 yards offroad inside the wildscape.
I guess that was the spot where he convinced the equine to give it up or who knows but she said he was going to town on a mare. The odd noises were queefs coming out of the animal's genitals as he pounded it. He was startled by the wife's gasp, fell off the stool, then got up and ran like a bat out of hell.
Less than 3 months later the wife is "tutoring" him at our house. Just a thought, why would a female witness that and get excited about having sex with the person versus being concerned about the fact she would be intimate with someone whose dong had been inside an equine?
And there is a rumor that this guy had bumped curlies with a pig too.
I don't know. I didn't whip out a measuring tape nor asked him If I could put tape on it.
How about one of you reach out to him and coordinate a meeting with him, measure it, pull the skin back, or whatever else you plan to do?
I saw it for a second and the best I can remember, it went past his kneecap. It is no surprise after the whole sex with the horse incident.
THE CONCLUSION:
After 8 months of therapy as a couple we are not divorcing, staying in the same property and I am moving into a detached structure on the same piece of land. Obviously, she is free to lead her life and we still enjoy the kids. As part of the therapy and as explained by the therapist, in order for me to start healing my trauma it would help me if I were to develop some interest in her new lifestyle to have some empathy/sympathy, there is a recommendation for me to follow through by showing some interest versus just dismissing it by thinking: I dont like this idea dn I dont want to hear about it. Because it would help both the wife and I. That would be to talk about the whole situation in an effort to show the wife that I care about the reasons that drove her to explore. and it would show the wife I am being compassionate as opposed to judgemental.
The first recommendation was for me to watch a video of them having sex. I thought come on! There is no need for that! simply because it is nonsensical.
According to our counselor, my "trauma" will only start healing when and if I watch a video of them. Another issue I have with the trauma conversation is, I believe I was surprised or maybe shocked about this situation unfolding but I wouldn't call it "trauma". I am not Not traumatized.
Ok fine, I will show compassion as she said. So the video my wife showed me was 21 minutes and I have to admit, I had a range of emotions raging inside and it wasn't fun to watch but after the fact, looking back, I guess it has helped me understand a few of the reasons why she would entertain condoning a behavior of this kind. We are way past the 7-10-year itch, the guy has a large tool, fantastic! My hope is that she enjoys it and she feels her decision was the right one. I want nothing else sexually with her.
The bright side of all this is: I get to hunt my own new vaginas from this point forward.
She complimented me for keeping a level head right off the bat when I suggested that we do not divorce. Plus refraining from litigation. We have remained amicable and I believe we will one day look back and be glad we did. Plus she gets to see every single pussy I bring home. Black, white, Asian and more lol
All the vaginas I craved out there but could never touch. Until the wife handed me a carte blanche. Whoops there's the silver lining.
It is funny how this whole situation took me back to a time when my wife was walking on the country road we live on and heard odd noises then less than a minute later came up on the boy standing on a step stool. He was not on the road but 20 yards offroad inside the wildscape.
I guess that was the spot where he convinced the equine to give it up or who knows but she said he was going to town on a mare. The odd noises were queefs coming out of the animal's genitals as he pounded it. He was startled by the wife's gasp, fell off the stool, then got up and ran like a bat out of hell.
Less than 3 months later the wife is "tutoring" him at our house. Just a thought, why would a female witness that and get excited about having sex with the person versus being concerned about the fact she would be intimate with someone whose dong had been inside an equine?
And there is a rumor that this guy had bumped curlies with a pig too.
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