That’s what my sister told me whenever we had our first hiccup years ago. She said I wouldn’t get with someone who could cheat on their ex because they could do that to you. Once a cheater always a cheater. Not always true though like you said.While this isn't broad-brush stroke, universally true, in my experience, once a cheater, always a cheater.
I'm of the opinion in this case that if she's willing to give into lust and desire, and take the risk of cheating, she's likely more inclined, at least to consider, doing the hot wife thing.
This has been my experience with my own wife, KK, as well as women I've carried on affairs with. In KK's case, she's never been happily monogamous, even from the time we were just dating. Before we transitioned to the hot wife thing, she was a cheater - dozens of men have had her mouth, pussy, and ass in that context. Now, even though she has "permission," KK still cheats. It's a power thing, her "little secret." I find it extraordinarily erotic and hot.
And i 100% agree with that too. If she’s cheating or cheated, then she’s definitely game but then I’m worried about her wanting to go out and explore on her own. I want her to be open about it and experience it with me. I want to be able to have fun with it and not her be ashamed of it. That is a very interesting aspect but I feel as if I want it to be something we do together. It does sound hot but I’d hate to never get to hear about it or her keep it a secret and never share