Frist, when you are blessed to be pierced, nipples, cock, pussy you always have a longer bar, ring, etc to allow for the swelling.
At the same time you're always pierced will a starter gauge.
When the swelling has disappeared, you can use a tapper to up one gauge.
The piercing should always be in proportion to where it's located.
Mrloves12345: you sub wife has large nipples so she can go several gauges up which in return increase the ball sizes. Please show us her next gauge and short bars.
While on on it..... bars are more popular rings for a good reason. When you turn a bar it's the same.... when toy turn a ring ir arches up and can cause discomfort.