The advice already provided in the many replies you’ve gotten is excellent.
My wife and I had our first cuckold experience in February of this year, and we have met many Bulls since then, and have had mostly amazing times. So we certainly aren’t experts, but we do have some experience to share, which I’m happy to do.
The first piece of advice I will share is this:
Make sure that this is something that you and your partner want. If you are hesitant, or unsure, or wavering, then keep it in fantasy until you are ready.
The reason I say this is because you can never “un-see” your wife getting fucked by another man. You can’t erase the moans and screams of pleasure she has when she rides a huge cock to orgasm.
Watching porn and talking dirty with my wife did not prepare me for the roller coaster of emotions that come from watching her beg another man to put his huge cock inside her. And, while you can never truly be “ready”, make sure this is something that you want.
The second piece of advice:
Already echoed in many replies, but I’ll repeat it again because it is so important: communication.
Talk with your partner about everything. And I mean every little detail. Talk about it multiple times. Be a broken record. Have everything talked through. It’s not an easy conversation, but it is critical to learn your partners limits and share yours as well.
Here are some possible tWill they play alone, will you be there, what will you wear, what will she wear, can she suck his cock, can she swallow, who is bringing condoms, where can the Bull cum, do you want to be involved, will it be filmed, is anal allowed, can the Bull be rough with her, rough with you, can you be sent to the bathroom so they can have time alone, can the Bull call you names, can she call you names, etc etc.
My wife and I constantly talk about every play date we have planned, so we know exactly what we want, what our limits are, and what our expectations are. It’s so important to be on the same page - both you two and the Bull!
Its also okay (and strongly recommended) to communicate your desires to your partner. Don’t be afraid to tell her what you want. Just remember and be respectful if she says “no” to an idea. Obviously, don’t try to push her. Let your partner go at their own pace.
The last piece of advice I will say is this:
Take your time finding the right Bull. And, it may take time.
It took months to find ou first Bull. We chatted with a few guys, for a long time, explaining our fantasy, going back and forth talking about limits and what we we’re comfortable trying. One Bull consistently stood out when compared to the other guys, and so we picked him to be our first.
Be very picky for your first. Having a great first experience will build a solid foundation for future play dates. I remember, we met our first Bull on a Thursday night at a hotel. My wife loved being fucked by him so much we organized to have him come over to our house on the Sunday so they could fuck again.
Once you have some experience and are more comfortable, then you can be less picky. But for the first Bull, take your time and find the right Bull for you both.
Lastly, I’ll say, just have fun. And enjoy. Good luck.
