Told wife I had done mfm before and wanted to with her. Her response was you would like it in the moment then regret it. Later I brought up again and she said not interested. She has sold panties before me asking this and posed to sell them. Any advice?
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Yeah she just playing the good wife role my friend. Cause if you say she taken pics in panties (to sell them) and sent them to people that a tell right there
try to keep the interest sparked, mention it to her casually perhaps during sex while she is about to orgasm, or just did, my advice is to go slow and continue to mention it, perhaps even suggest a FMF perhaps less intimidating for her, and is she is posing to sell her panties, I have the feeling she really in time is ready for the next step, perhaps when she is sending pose posts to sell them you could mention maybe a live view may help your sales, or an open on going views of her totally nude, if she will do that I think as the other guy mentioned she is on the way. When my husband first proposed the idea of wife swapping, I was thinking what is he up to really, but he kept talking to me about it, usually when I was really hot or just orgasmed, and it sounded good. when we finally made it happen, I was hesitant but once we got started, I was all In.
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after you fuck her don't ask just start licking her pussy - do it every time you fuck her - then on the 10th time - say I am fantasizing that you fucked another cock earlier today and I am licking his cum from your pussy - anything to make you happy.
It's just my opinion and nothing more, but since she said, "you would like it in the moment then regret it", I'd start there. She knows the idea excites you "in the moment". She's not sure how you would feel afterwards. She sees the potential for it turn in a bad way for you both. I'm sure her head turned into computer when you shared the idea and it immediately calculated all the potential outcomes. Too many of the possibilities she came up with were ones with negative outcomes.
You'll need to address those negative possibilities carefully and thoughtfully. You can't be too dismissive of her concerns and you can't be too willing to accept anything to get what you want. Doing that will only make it look like it's all really about you. You need to do a lot of listening and be prepared to adjust your thinking.
Truthfully it won't work at all if it isn't something that enhances sex for both of you. If she can't immediately say what it is that YOU get out of it and what satisfies YOU then she'll know there's an imbalance that will end poorly. It will be obvious what she will get out of the deal. Her uncertainty is you and your experience and whether she'll navigate the scene well enough to avoid her concerns. She may not think she''s up to that challenge. She and you both need to know how easy it is to make a mistake. All mistakes come with a consequence and they can be innocuous or they can be devastating.
If you really want this to happen you're going to have to calm yourself and build a foundation a little at a time and edge your way towards your goal. I wish you the best of luck. Keep us updated.
You'll need to address those negative possibilities carefully and thoughtfully. You can't be too dismissive of her concerns and you can't be too willing to accept anything to get what you want. Doing that will only make it look like it's all really about you. You need to do a lot of listening and be prepared to adjust your thinking.
Truthfully it won't work at all if it isn't something that enhances sex for both of you. If she can't immediately say what it is that YOU get out of it and what satisfies YOU then she'll know there's an imbalance that will end poorly. It will be obvious what she will get out of the deal. Her uncertainty is you and your experience and whether she'll navigate the scene well enough to avoid her concerns. She may not think she''s up to that challenge. She and you both need to know how easy it is to make a mistake. All mistakes come with a consequence and they can be innocuous or they can be devastating.
If you really want this to happen you're going to have to calm yourself and build a foundation a little at a time and edge your way towards your goal. I wish you the best of luck. Keep us updated.
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