Need some experience couple's advice on how to get her to have sex with her first bull. Please help

Is there anyone who is experienced in hotwife-ing and/or cuckolding, who can read our background and give advice on how to get my wife to fuck her first bull?

So, my wife and I did soft swap on at a crazy romantic exotic swingers clubs in Paris a few years back before we got married. We participated in orgies, fucked each other in front of like 20 people watching us. We planned to only go one night in Paris on vacation, but she wanted to go back every night, so we did. We tried American swing clubs, but they suck compared to the one's in Paris which make you feel like you are in the movie "Eyes Wide Shut." We have been together 7 years (married 5, as this is our second marriage for both of us). We have great sex life. She is early 40s very multi-orgasmic and very beautiful.

After she cums and wants me to cum faster, she will start roll playing that I am another man with a huge dick, sometimes she will pretend I am a young hung guy, sometimes a hung black guy. It appears that she does not do this for her, but that she does this, primarily because she knows it turns me on and will make me cum almost right away. "Fuck me, cum in me, your so much bigger than my husband." She will suck my finger and say, "I am sucking his dick." Afterwards, I USED to say, it is only a fantasy, "I don't want you to fuck anyone else," and she would say, "good, I don't want to fuck another guy."

But about a One year and 1/2 ago, I started to open up about how I REALLY wanted it to happen. I would ask her to tell me stories about guys she has fucked in the past. She later said that she just made up those stories about threesomes with two guys in the past, just to get me excited, but I am not sure that is true, because she is the horniest woman that I have ever met in my life. Then I stopped telling her about my fantasies, because I think she got sick of me talking about it. She would tell me, "I just want you to be you, and me to be me and it to be romantic tonight." I think she felt that I just wanted her to use as a sex object (she is super hot), so I stopped to prove that she really is the love of my life (which she is totally). However, without me asking she would still make dirty "cuckold roll play talk" when she wanted me to cum faster, or she was a little drunk and wanted to spice things up.

But I fantasize about this every single day and nearly every time we have sex.

Then right before the pandemic, I said we would go to Paris again. I said this time I want to go back to that club. I asked her flat out, "it would really turn me on to watch you fuck a guy or to have you fuck another guy and tell me about it in Paris, and I would want the guy to be someone who really turned you on, who you thought was hot." She seemed hesitant, and she said, "well I feel like you won't go to Paris unless we go to a swingers club and I fuck some guy." She said, "I am not sure I want to fuck another guy." I said no, I wanted to go back no matter what, she seemed to think about it for a minute, and she didn't say yes right away. However, she said, "ok, if you take me back to Paris, I promise that I will pick out a guy to fuck there." For us, Paris was the most erotic real life fantasy ever. However, she said this once before like 4 years ago on a trip to New Orleans (earlier in our relationship), but then said she was just kidding about fucking another guy.

But the Pandemic was terrible for us. We have bickered a lot, and sex was kind of mechanical for awhile. However, I have noticed if I really romance the stone with her, she fucks my brains out and wants to watch porn with me, and she will always want to do a search for "real amateur Paris swingers club."

For the last several weeks or so, we have started to feel like our selves again, and sex has been getting better and better. We have really been sweet to each other, really caring and romantic with each other and we have gotten along really well. She will comment on how hot I look and we flirt like teenagers with each other again.

So LAST WEEKEND, I brought it up hotwife-ing like a real proposal, not just as in roll play. Here is what we said on the couch while we were watching a movie after a few drinks:

Me: "I know I joke all the time, but I am dead serious, it would actually turn me on if you had sex with another man. I would never sleep with another woman, and have no desire too." Me: "so if you really wanted to fuck another man, even without telling me first, it would turn me on and I would be more than okay with it, don't ever think twice about it." She said, "I know that it would really turn you on...So wait.... I can choose ANYONE who I want to fuck?" (I am not sure if she was testing me here to see if I would get jealous, which I did not). Me: "Yes, of course you can choose who you would fuck." Her: "even if he is really really fucking hot." Me: "Absolutely, I am very serious, I promise it would not effect our marriage at all or make me jealous." Her: "what if I already know the guy? Even if it is a guy I have already fucked?" Me: "Absolutely, I promise" Her: "okay!" Then I dropped it. I didn't want to pressure her too much at this point.

Do I wait some more and be romantic with her? I think I should wait till she has a few drinks and is a little Horney first. How should I do this? I am really really really serious about her hotwifing. I am dying for her to start to fuck other guys. I cannot stop thinking about it. I really want to ask her about that conversation and as if she could fuck some one from her past again, who would it be.

CAN ANYONE GIVE ANY ADVISE? ANY COUPLES, HUSBANDS, or HOTWIVES OUT THERE, THAT CAN TELL ME HOW TO CONVINCE HER TO JUST DO IT?

This is her

 
Is there anyone who is experienced in hotwife-ing and/or cuckolding, who can read our background and give advice on how to get my wife to fuck her first bull?

So, my wife and I did soft swap on at a crazy romantic exotic swingers clubs in Paris a few years back before we got married. We participated in orgies, fucked each other in front of like 20 people watching us. We planned to only go one night in Paris on vacation, but she wanted to go back every night, so we did. We tried American swing clubs, but they suck compared to the one's in Paris which make you feel like you are in the movie "Eyes Wide Shut." We have been together 7 years (married 5, as this is our second marriage for both of us). We have great sex life. She is early 40s very multi-orgasmic and very beautiful.

After she cums and wants me to cum faster, she will start roll playing that I am another man with a huge dick, sometimes she will pretend I am a young hung guy, sometimes a hung black guy. It appears that she does not do this for her, but that she does this, primarily because she knows it turns me on and will make me cum almost right away. "Fuck me, cum in me, your so much bigger than my husband." She will suck my finger and say, "I am sucking his dick." Afterwards, I USED to say, it is only a fantasy, "I don't want you to fuck anyone else," and she would say, "good, I don't want to fuck another guy."

But about a One year and 1/2 ago, I started to open up about how I REALLY wanted it to happen. I would ask her to tell me stories about guys she has fucked in the past. She later said that she just made up those stories about threesomes with two guys in the past, just to get me excited, but I am not sure that is true, because she is the horniest woman that I have ever met in my life. Then I stopped telling her about my fantasies, because I think she got sick of me talking about it. She would tell me, "I just want you to be you, and me to be me and it to be romantic tonight." I think she felt that I just wanted her to use as a sex object (she is super hot), so I stopped to prove that she really is the love of my life (which she is totally). However, without me asking she would still make dirty "cuckold roll play talk" when she wanted me to cum faster, or she was a little drunk and wanted to spice things up.

But I fantasize about this every single day and nearly every time we have sex.

Then right before the pandemic, I said we would go to Paris again. I said this time I want to go back to that club. I asked her flat out, "it would really turn me on to watch you fuck a guy or to have you fuck another guy and tell me about it in Paris, and I would want the guy to be someone who really turned you on, who you thought was hot." She seemed hesitant, and she said, "well I feel like you won't go to Paris unless we go to a swingers club and I fuck some guy." She said, "I am not sure I want to fuck another guy." I said no, I wanted to go back no matter what, she seemed to think about it for a minute, and she didn't say yes right away. However, she said, "ok, if you take me back to Paris, I promise that I will pick out a guy to fuck there." For us, Paris was the most erotic real life fantasy ever. However, she said this once before like 4 years ago on a trip to New Orleans (earlier in our relationship), but then said she was just kidding about fucking another guy.

But the Pandemic was terrible for us. We have bickered a lot, and sex was kind of mechanical for awhile. However, I have noticed if I really romance the stone with her, she fucks my brains out and wants to watch porn with me, and she will always want to do a search for "real amateur Paris swingers club."

For the last several weeks or so, we have started to feel like our selves again, and sex has been getting better and better. We have really been sweet to each other, really caring and romantic with each other and we have gotten along really well. She will comment on how hot I look and we flirt like teenagers with each other again.

So LAST WEEKEND, I brought it up hotwife-ing like a real proposal, not just as in roll play. Here is what we said on the couch while we were watching a movie after a few drinks:

Me: "I know I joke all the time, but I am dead serious, it would actually turn me on if you had sex with another man. I would never sleep with another woman, and have no desire too." Me: "so if you really wanted to fuck another man, even without telling me first, it would turn me on and I would be more than okay with it, don't ever think twice about it." She said, "I know that it would really turn you on...So wait.... I can choose ANYONE who I want to fuck?" (I am not sure if she was testing me here to see if I would get jealous, which I did not). Me: "Yes, of course you can choose who you would fuck." Her: "even if he is really really fucking hot." Me: "Absolutely, I am very serious, I promise it would not effect our marriage at all or make me jealous." Her: "what if I already know the guy? Even if it is a guy I have already fucked?" Me: "Absolutely, I promise" Her: "okay!" Then I dropped it. I didn't want to pressure her too much at this point.

Do I wait some more and be romantic with her? I think I should wait till she has a few drinks and is a little Horney first. How should I do this? I am really really really serious about her hotwifing. I am dying for her to start to fuck other guys. I cannot stop thinking about it. I really want to ask her about that conversation and as if she could fuck some one from her past again, who would it be.

CAN ANYONE GIVE ANY ADVISE? ANY COUPLES, HUSBANDS, or HOTWIVES OUT THERE, THAT CAN TELL ME HOW TO CONVINCE HER TO JUST DO IT?

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I don’t think she will have a problem finding a willing lover.
 
I don’t think she will have a problem finding a willing lover.
Thank you for the complement. I agree with you, she is beautiful. However, my problem is not how to find a guy, I guess. My issue is how to get her to want to fuck another guy. How to get it across the goal line and get her willing to fuck another guy. Let me know if you have any suggestions
 
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How are You. I am DrExpert and I serious about giving You advice till You not got success in this dream come true. Sorry for English and grammatical mistakes.
I am Psychology student and I have vast knowledge on this subject so I know better about " How She will CROSS THE GOAL LINE .
Yes It's true that " There more chances She will choose from her Past " I advice You be more and more submissive to her. Don't Dominant her in any condition ( Not in sex , daily life, shopping, decision making )

Help her in House chores. Praise her beauty.

Have You tried Role Play?
What's her objections for Sex outside marriage ? Main Concern ?

Just after ejaculation what is Your thinking on this topic. Are You still want this to happen.
I need more details about You. More You share details more I know about You. More PRECISE ADVICE I can give You So I can Predict better. Like education, profession , hobbies, Remember I am DrExpert.
 
Thank you for the complement. I agree with you, she is beautiful. However, my problem is not how to find a guy, I guess. My issue is how to get her to want to fuck another guy. How to get it across the goal line and get her willing to fuck another guy. Let me know if you have any suggestions
Did u have any luck? I’m kind of in the same boat. How to get her into the idea and then go through with it. Any advice or suggestions are great. And good luck to u
 
You have done a great job planting the seed. Believe me she is thinking about it probably even right now. Took us a while and some bad decisions (affairs) before we were able to talk openly about it and move forward. Even now after years of letting my wife enjoy sex she still has times of doubt and calls it off. The more I push the farther the goal gets. As stated before just make sure you praise her and make her feel as sexy as you can. You have already done well by expressing your desire and making it an open conversation. Wife sharing porn and role-play are absolute gateways to the eventual play.

Once this damn pandemic is over I'd say start a bit slower. Take her to a bar or club where there is dancing and ask her to dance with other men, or I've seen that KIK is an option - keep it virtual so she feels safe. Our first time and even some of my wife's regular play are with people we have known for a long time. Gives that feeling of security. Sounds like you already have told her how much it turns you on and that it will not screw up your future. As most have said your wife is amazing and can find whoever she wants. It will just be her personality clicking with the guy she chooses. In other words she will need to match her level of preferred dominance or compliance to the bull. Mismatched wants/needs/desires lead to bad play times and that will ruin the whole process. Sorry so long-winded but when done right a hotwife experience can be the most pleasurable thing for all involved.
 
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Is there someone/ a BULL that your wife thinks is hot and was cool to deal with on KIK that you could recommend or introduce. I set up an account ChiParis4u2
 
Thank you for your detailed advice. that is really cool of you. Encouraging and incitefull. I will not push too hard.
Hey we have to encourage each other. So much fun once you get your wife on-board. They will feel sexy and powerful and you will reap the reward. My wife is packing a bag as we speak for a night with her regular, and I know tomorrow when she is home we will pretty much not leave the bedroom. Good luck my friend!
 
Hey we have to encourage each other. So much fun once you get your wife on-board. They will feel sexy and powerful and you will reap the reward. My wife is packing a bag as we speak for a night with her regular, and I know tomorrow when she is home we will pretty much not leave the bedroom. Good luck my friend!
FUCK... THAT SOUNDS AWESOME!
 
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Well in my experience women are more prone to fantasy thoughts than visual as we men with porn etc. While the pandemic is on my suggestion and what has worked for me is to make a mutual friend on-line, a man you can get on with but more importantly so can your wife. Have regular conversations about the lifestyle and other things in general allow the man to flirt with your wife and show your approval. In time allow your wife to realise the more she flirts with this man the more attentive you become with her let her enjoy her flirting unrestricted and when she gets really sexy with him reward her without telling her it's a reward, with oral sex until orgasms but dont fuck her and definately don't allow yourself to cum, this is important it must be all about her pleasure. Overtime she will come to realise this is her treat and something you genuinely want her to enjoy. Don't push her regarding fucking other guys and leave the flirting to the other guy this is important allow her to explore areas of her sexuality that funnily she will do with him but not you, just allow this without jealousy which she will be watching for. If you do this right she will eventually request you allow her to have sex with another man. Here if you need any more advjce let me know how it goes good luck.
 
Is there anyone who is experienced in hotwife-ing and/or cuckolding, who can read our background and give advice on how to get my wife to fuck her first bull?

So, my wife and I did soft swap on at a crazy romantic exotic swingers clubs in Paris a few years back before we got married. We participated in orgies, fucked each other in front of like 20 people watching us. We planned to only go one night in Paris on vacation, but she wanted to go back every night, so we did. We tried American swing clubs, but they suck compared to the one's in Paris which make you feel like you are in the movie "Eyes Wide Shut." We have been together 7 years (married 5, as this is our second marriage for both of us). We have great sex life. She is early 40s very multi-orgasmic and very beautiful.

After she cums and wants me to cum faster, she will start roll playing that I am another man with a huge dick, sometimes she will pretend I am a young hung guy, sometimes a hung black guy. It appears that she does not do this for her, but that she does this, primarily because she knows it turns me on and will make me cum almost right away. "Fuck me, cum in me, your so much bigger than my husband." She will suck my finger and say, "I am sucking his dick." Afterwards, I USED to say, it is only a fantasy, "I don't want you to fuck anyone else," and she would say, "good, I don't want to fuck another guy."

But about a One year and 1/2 ago, I started to open up about how I REALLY wanted it to happen. I would ask her to tell me stories about guys she has fucked in the past. She later said that she just made up those stories about threesomes with two guys in the past, just to get me excited, but I am not sure that is true, because she is the horniest woman that I have ever met in my life. Then I stopped telling her about my fantasies, because I think she got sick of me talking about it. She would tell me, "I just want you to be you, and me to be me and it to be romantic tonight." I think she felt that I just wanted her to use as a sex object (she is super hot), so I stopped to prove that she really is the love of my life (which she is totally). However, without me asking she would still make dirty "cuckold roll play talk" when she wanted me to cum faster, or she was a little drunk and wanted to spice things up.

But I fantasize about this every single day and nearly every time we have sex.

Then right before the pandemic, I said we would go to Paris again. I said this time I want to go back to that club. I asked her flat out, "it would really turn me on to watch you fuck a guy or to have you fuck another guy and tell me about it in Paris, and I would want the guy to be someone who really turned you on, who you thought was hot." She seemed hesitant, and she said, "well I feel like you won't go to Paris unless we go to a swingers club and I fuck some guy." She said, "I am not sure I want to fuck another guy." I said no, I wanted to go back no matter what, she seemed to think about it for a minute, and she didn't say yes right away. However, she said, "ok, if you take me back to Paris, I promise that I will pick out a guy to fuck there." For us, Paris was the most erotic real life fantasy ever. However, she said this once before like 4 years ago on a trip to New Orleans (earlier in our relationship), but then said she was just kidding about fucking another guy.

But the Pandemic was terrible for us. We have bickered a lot, and sex was kind of mechanical for awhile. However, I have noticed if I really romance the stone with her, she fucks my brains out and wants to watch porn with me, and she will always want to do a search for "real amateur Paris swingers club."

For the last several weeks or so, we have started to feel like our selves again, and sex has been getting better and better. We have really been sweet to each other, really caring and romantic with each other and we have gotten along really well. She will comment on how hot I look and we flirt like teenagers with each other again.

So LAST WEEKEND, I brought it up hotwife-ing like a real proposal, not just as in roll play. Here is what we said on the couch while we were watching a movie after a few drinks:

Me: "I know I joke all the time, but I am dead serious, it would actually turn me on if you had sex with another man. I would never sleep with another woman, and have no desire too." Me: "so if you really wanted to fuck another man, even without telling me first, it would turn me on and I would be more than okay with it, don't ever think twice about it." She said, "I know that it would really turn you on...So wait.... I can choose ANYONE who I want to fuck?" (I am not sure if she was testing me here to see if I would get jealous, which I did not). Me: "Yes, of course you can choose who you would fuck." Her: "even if he is really really fucking hot." Me: "Absolutely, I am very serious, I promise it would not effect our marriage at all or make me jealous." Her: "what if I already know the guy? Even if it is a guy I have already fucked?" Me: "Absolutely, I promise" Her: "okay!" Then I dropped it. I didn't want to pressure her too much at this point.

Do I wait some more and be romantic with her? I think I should wait till she has a few drinks and is a little Horney first. How should I do this? I am really really really serious about her hotwifing. I am dying for her to start to fuck other guys. I cannot stop thinking about it. I really want to ask her about that conversation and as if she could fuck some one from her past again, who would it be.

CAN ANYONE GIVE ANY ADVISE? ANY COUPLES, HUSBANDS, or HOTWIVES OUT THERE, THAT CAN TELL ME HOW TO CONVINCE HER TO JUST DO IT?

This is her

Absolutely great outfit the first.outfit is the best ..i would love to give her an intense night of pleasure
 
Is there anyone who is experienced in hotwife-ing and/or cuckolding, who can read our background and give advice on how to get my wife to fuck her first bull?

So, my wife and I did soft swap on at a crazy romantic exotic swingers clubs in Paris a few years back before we got married. We participated in orgies, fucked each other in front of like 20 people watching us. We planned to only go one night in Paris on vacation, but she wanted to go back every night, so we did. We tried American swing clubs, but they suck compared to the one's in Paris which make you feel like you are in the movie "Eyes Wide Shut." We have been together 7 years (married 5, as this is our second marriage for both of us). We have great sex life. She is early 40s very multi-orgasmic and very beautiful.

After she cums and wants me to cum faster, she will start roll playing that I am another man with a huge dick, sometimes she will pretend I am a young hung guy, sometimes a hung black guy. It appears that she does not do this for her, but that she does this, primarily because she knows it turns me on and will make me cum almost right away. "Fuck me, cum in me, your so much bigger than my husband." She will suck my finger and say, "I am sucking his dick." Afterwards, I USED to say, it is only a fantasy, "I don't want you to fuck anyone else," and she would say, "good, I don't want to fuck another guy."

But about a One year and 1/2 ago, I started to open up about how I REALLY wanted it to happen. I would ask her to tell me stories about guys she has fucked in the past. She later said that she just made up those stories about threesomes with two guys in the past, just to get me excited, but I am not sure that is true, because she is the horniest woman that I have ever met in my life. Then I stopped telling her about my fantasies, because I think she got sick of me talking about it. She would tell me, "I just want you to be you, and me to be me and it to be romantic tonight." I think she felt that I just wanted her to use as a sex object (she is super hot), so I stopped to prove that she really is the love of my life (which she is totally). However, without me asking she would still make dirty "cuckold roll play talk" when she wanted me to cum faster, or she was a little drunk and wanted to spice things up.

But I fantasize about this every single day and nearly every time we have sex.

Then right before the pandemic, I said we would go to Paris again. I said this time I want to go back to that club. I asked her flat out, "it would really turn me on to watch you fuck a guy or to have you fuck another guy and tell me about it in Paris, and I would want the guy to be someone who really turned you on, who you thought was hot." She seemed hesitant, and she said, "well I feel like you won't go to Paris unless we go to a swingers club and I fuck some guy." She said, "I am not sure I want to fuck another guy." I said no, I wanted to go back no matter what, she seemed to think about it for a minute, and she didn't say yes right away. However, she said, "ok, if you take me back to Paris, I promise that I will pick out a guy to fuck there." For us, Paris was the most erotic real life fantasy ever. However, she said this once before like 4 years ago on a trip to New Orleans (earlier in our relationship), but then said she was just kidding about fucking another guy.

But the Pandemic was terrible for us. We have bickered a lot, and sex was kind of mechanical for awhile. However, I have noticed if I really romance the stone with her, she fucks my brains out and wants to watch porn with me, and she will always want to do a search for "real amateur Paris swingers club."

For the last several weeks or so, we have started to feel like our selves again, and sex has been getting better and better. We have really been sweet to each other, really caring and romantic with each other and we have gotten along really well. She will comment on how hot I look and we flirt like teenagers with each other again.

So LAST WEEKEND, I brought it up hotwife-ing like a real proposal, not just as in roll play. Here is what we said on the couch while we were watching a movie after a few drinks:

Me: "I know I joke all the time, but I am dead serious, it would actually turn me on if you had sex with another man. I would never sleep with another woman, and have no desire too." Me: "so if you really wanted to fuck another man, even without telling me first, it would turn me on and I would be more than okay with it, don't ever think twice about it." She said, "I know that it would really turn you on...So wait.... I can choose ANYONE who I want to fuck?" (I am not sure if she was testing me here to see if I would get jealous, which I did not). Me: "Yes, of course you can choose who you would fuck." Her: "even if he is really really fucking hot." Me: "Absolutely, I am very serious, I promise it would not effect our marriage at all or make me jealous." Her: "what if I already know the guy? Even if it is a guy I have already fucked?" Me: "Absolutely, I promise" Her: "okay!" Then I dropped it. I didn't want to pressure her too much at this point.

Do I wait some more and be romantic with her? I think I should wait till she has a few drinks and is a little Horney first. How should I do this? I am really really really serious about her hotwifing. I am dying for her to start to fuck other guys. I cannot stop thinking about it. I really want to ask her about that conversation and as if she could fuck some one from her past again, who would it be.

CAN ANYONE GIVE ANY ADVISE? ANY COUPLES, HUSBANDS, or HOTWIVES OUT THERE, THAT CAN TELL ME HOW TO CONVINCE HER TO JUST DO IT?

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She is so HOT LOVE THE FIRST OUTFIT I WOULD DEFINITELY GIVE HER AN INTENSE NIGHT OF PLEASURE
 
Is there anyone who is experienced in hotwife-ing and/or cuckolding, who can read our background and give advice on how to get my wife to fuck her first bull?

So, my wife and I did soft swap on at a crazy romantic exotic swingers clubs in Paris a few years back before we got married. We participated in orgies, fucked each other in front of like 20 people watching us. We planned to only go one night in Paris on vacation, but she wanted to go back every night, so we did. We tried American swing clubs, but they suck compared to the one's in Paris which make you feel like you are in the movie "Eyes Wide Shut." We have been together 7 years (married 5, as this is our second marriage for both of us). We have great sex life. She is early 40s very multi-orgasmic and very beautiful.

After she cums and wants me to cum faster, she will start roll playing that I am another man with a huge dick, sometimes she will pretend I am a young hung guy, sometimes a hung black guy. It appears that she does not do this for her, but that she does this, primarily because she knows it turns me on and will make me cum almost right away. "Fuck me, cum in me, your so much bigger than my husband." She will suck my finger and say, "I am sucking his dick." Afterwards, I USED to say, it is only a fantasy, "I don't want you to fuck anyone else," and she would say, "good, I don't want to fuck another guy."

But about a One year and 1/2 ago, I started to open up about how I REALLY wanted it to happen. I would ask her to tell me stories about guys she has fucked in the past. She later said that she just made up those stories about threesomes with two guys in the past, just to get me excited, but I am not sure that is true, because she is the horniest woman that I have ever met in my life. Then I stopped telling her about my fantasies, because I think she got sick of me talking about it. She would tell me, "I just want you to be you, and me to be me and it to be romantic tonight." I think she felt that I just wanted her to use as a sex object (she is super hot), so I stopped to prove that she really is the love of my life (which she is totally). However, without me asking she would still make dirty "cuckold roll play talk" when she wanted me to cum faster, or she was a little drunk and wanted to spice things up.

But I fantasize about this every single day and nearly every time we have sex.

Then right before the pandemic, I said we would go to Paris again. I said this time I want to go back to that club. I asked her flat out, "it would really turn me on to watch you fuck a guy or to have you fuck another guy and tell me about it in Paris, and I would want the guy to be someone who really turned you on, who you thought was hot." She seemed hesitant, and she said, "well I feel like you won't go to Paris unless we go to a swingers club and I fuck some guy." She said, "I am not sure I want to fuck another guy." I said no, I wanted to go back no matter what, she seemed to think about it for a minute, and she didn't say yes right away. However, she said, "ok, if you take me back to Paris, I promise that I will pick out a guy to fuck there." For us, Paris was the most erotic real life fantasy ever. However, she said this once before like 4 years ago on a trip to New Orleans (earlier in our relationship), but then said she was just kidding about fucking another guy.

But the Pandemic was terrible for us. We have bickered a lot, and sex was kind of mechanical for awhile. However, I have noticed if I really romance the stone with her, she fucks my brains out and wants to watch porn with me, and she will always want to do a search for "real amateur Paris swingers club."

For the last several weeks or so, we have started to feel like our selves again, and sex has been getting better and better. We have really been sweet to each other, really caring and romantic with each other and we have gotten along really well. She will comment on how hot I look and we flirt like teenagers with each other again.

So LAST WEEKEND, I brought it up hotwife-ing like a real proposal, not just as in roll play. Here is what we said on the couch while we were watching a movie after a few drinks:

Me: "I know I joke all the time, but I am dead serious, it would actually turn me on if you had sex with another man. I would never sleep with another woman, and have no desire too." Me: "so if you really wanted to fuck another man, even without telling me first, it would turn me on and I would be more than okay with it, don't ever think twice about it." She said, "I know that it would really turn you on...So wait.... I can choose ANYONE who I want to fuck?" (I am not sure if she was testing me here to see if I would get jealous, which I did not). Me: "Yes, of course you can choose who you would fuck." Her: "even if he is really really fucking hot." Me: "Absolutely, I am very serious, I promise it would not effect our marriage at all or make me jealous." Her: "what if I already know the guy? Even if it is a guy I have already fucked?" Me: "Absolutely, I promise" Her: "okay!" Then I dropped it. I didn't want to pressure her too much at this point.

Do I wait some more and be romantic with her? I think I should wait till she has a few drinks and is a little Horney first. How should I do this? I am really really really serious about her hotwifing. I am dying for her to start to fuck other guys. I cannot stop thinking about it. I really want to ask her about that conversation and as if she could fuck some one from her past again, who would it be.

CAN ANYONE GIVE ANY ADVISE? ANY COUPLES, HUSBANDS, or HOTWIVES OUT THERE, THAT CAN TELL ME HOW TO CONVINCE HER TO JUST DO IT?

This is her

Love the outfit it definitely says CUM FUCK.ME
 
Is there anyone who is experienced in hotwife-ing and/or cuckolding, who can read our background and give advice on how to get my wife to fuck her first bull?

So, my wife and I did soft swap on at a crazy romantic exotic swingers clubs in Paris a few years back before we got married. We participated in orgies, fucked each other in front of like 20 people watching us. We planned to only go one night in Paris on vacation, but she wanted to go back every night, so we did. We tried American swing clubs, but they suck compared to the one's in Paris which make you feel like you are in the movie "Eyes Wide Shut." We have been together 7 years (married 5, as this is our second marriage for both of us). We have great sex life. She is early 40s very multi-orgasmic and very beautiful.

After she cums and wants me to cum faster, she will start roll playing that I am another man with a huge dick, sometimes she will pretend I am a young hung guy, sometimes a hung black guy. It appears that she does not do this for her, but that she does this, primarily because she knows it turns me on and will make me cum almost right away. "Fuck me, cum in me, your so much bigger than my husband." She will suck my finger and say, "I am sucking his dick." Afterwards, I USED to say, it is only a fantasy, "I don't want you to fuck anyone else," and she would say, "good, I don't want to fuck another guy."

But about a One year and 1/2 ago, I started to open up about how I REALLY wanted it to happen. I would ask her to tell me stories about guys she has fucked in the past. She later said that she just made up those stories about threesomes with two guys in the past, just to get me excited, but I am not sure that is true, because she is the horniest woman that I have ever met in my life. Then I stopped telling her about my fantasies, because I think she got sick of me talking about it. She would tell me, "I just want you to be you, and me to be me and it to be romantic tonight." I think she felt that I just wanted her to use as a sex object (she is super hot), so I stopped to prove that she really is the love of my life (which she is totally). However, without me asking she would still make dirty "cuckold roll play talk" when she wanted me to cum faster, or she was a little drunk and wanted to spice things up.

But I fantasize about this every single day and nearly every time we have sex.

Then right before the pandemic, I said we would go to Paris again. I said this time I want to go back to that club. I asked her flat out, "it would really turn me on to watch you fuck a guy or to have you fuck another guy and tell me about it in Paris, and I would want the guy to be someone who really turned you on, who you thought was hot." She seemed hesitant, and she said, "well I feel like you won't go to Paris unless we go to a swingers club and I fuck some guy." She said, "I am not sure I want to fuck another guy." I said no, I wanted to go back no matter what, she seemed to think about it for a minute, and she didn't say yes right away. However, she said, "ok, if you take me back to Paris, I promise that I will pick out a guy to fuck there." For us, Paris was the most erotic real life fantasy ever. However, she said this once before like 4 years ago on a trip to New Orleans (earlier in our relationship), but then said she was just kidding about fucking another guy.

But the Pandemic was terrible for us. We have bickered a lot, and sex was kind of mechanical for awhile. However, I have noticed if I really romance the stone with her, she fucks my brains out and wants to watch porn with me, and she will always want to do a search for "real amateur Paris swingers club."

For the last several weeks or so, we have started to feel like our selves again, and sex has been getting better and better. We have really been sweet to each other, really caring and romantic with each other and we have gotten along really well. She will comment on how hot I look and we flirt like teenagers with each other again.

So LAST WEEKEND, I brought it up hotwife-ing like a real proposal, not just as in roll play. Here is what we said on the couch while we were watching a movie after a few drinks:

Me: "I know I joke all the time, but I am dead serious, it would actually turn me on if you had sex with another man. I would never sleep with another woman, and have no desire too." Me: "so if you really wanted to fuck another man, even without telling me first, it would turn me on and I would be more than okay with it, don't ever think twice about it." She said, "I know that it would really turn you on...So wait.... I can choose ANYONE who I want to fuck?" (I am not sure if she was testing me here to see if I would get jealous, which I did not). Me: "Yes, of course you can choose who you would fuck." Her: "even if he is really really fucking hot." Me: "Absolutely, I am very serious, I promise it would not effect our marriage at all or make me jealous." Her: "what if I already know the guy? Even if it is a guy I have already fucked?" Me: "Absolutely, I promise" Her: "okay!" Then I dropped it. I didn't want to pressure her too much at this point.

Do I wait some more and be romantic with her? I think I should wait till she has a few drinks and is a little Horney first. How should I do this? I am really really really serious about her hotwifing. I am dying for her to start to fuck other guys. I cannot stop thinking about it. I really want to ask her about that conversation and as if she could fuck some one from her past again, who would it be.

CAN ANYONE GIVE ANY ADVISE? ANY COUPLES, HUSBANDS, or HOTWIVES OUT THERE, THAT CAN TELL ME HOW TO CONVINCE HER TO JUST DO IT?

This is her

She is so hot and sexy
DRESS HER UPMTAKR HER OUT DINNER DANCING TELL.HER HOW HOT SHE LOOKS Try to get a guy to ask her to dance a slow dance. Encourage her to have a few more slow dances. When she comes back.to the tables tell her how hot she looked dsncing with him and that .it really excitied you seeing her like that..Then see how the conversation goes..It could lead to a very sexual night
 
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