We have been in the lifestyle for 8 years and started in it with chastity after he cheated on me with my cousin at my birthday party for the past 8 years he wears chastity 24/7 365 is allowed 1 ruined orgasam every 2 weeks I full very unpleasant painful orgasam every 2 months and we have sex once a year for 2 minutes with 2 condoms on I on the other hand have had sex 3-7 days a week with different guys he has to watch and clean up if he is home he had a vasectomy a while ago however I have every intention of having a large interracial family starting later this year outside of sex he does all the chores and must were a pink thong at all times I have done a lot of public humiliation including posting that we are starting a family on Facebook despite him not being able to and that we are not adopting recently he has done something that really pissed me off and I need very very harsh long term punishment ideas