Wife and I haven't included another man in our bed for 11 years. The thought is super stimulating sexually for myself and it seems to be acceptable for her when we fantasize. She chats with a cruise worker (a handsome Jamaican man) she met weeks ago. I find myself excited but super jealous at the same time. He called her thick and juicy which she said "I thought you might like some thickness." I find it extremely hot but I get that sinking gut feeling too. We were having sex last night in doggy style and she started telling me that she thinks he would love to have her in that position and how he likes thick and juicy women like her. I told her he would love it and would love to fill her with his cum. I told her he was probably a lot bigger than me and she told me that she wanted to see his dick which made me absolutely explode in her. It felt heavenly and so hot. Now I'm back to being a little insecure but she tells me not to worry that I'm number 1. So now for my question.
Need personal advice
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Why stop what is inevitable. Sit back and enjoy the show.
Well he lives in Jamaica so the likelihood of him and her connecting is small. Plus he works almost all of the time. I'm just confused with the extreme arousal and the fear and jealousy tied to it.
If it’s not going to happen, then why worry about it? Use it during sex and enjoy it.
It’s a very natural thing to feel, the jealousy never really goes away.
I've heard that a lot. How does a wife care for her husband and remove the jealousy after the deed is done? Curious to know because that's something I would like to suggest should it actually happen again.
You need to talk a lot! Communication is the key, it keeps you in the loop and there can be no secrets.
No problem, it is an incredible lifestyle if you are able to get over the jealousy and trust your wife. It has brought us a lot closer to each other and we talk more now than we ever have!
Good luck and hope it all works out!
Carrienlarry
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Maybe like us. Start sharing fantasies while having sex. Call each other different names. Tell each other how better they are than your spouse. I would tell hubby how I wanted him to cum in me so I could bring my used pussy home. Etc etc. you get the idea. It helped us break the ice so to speak
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