Politeness & human decency is paramount.
All depends on what the woman want. We are into swinging so can share what my wife expect from the partner & what other girls wanted me to do.
My wife like the bull to be more like boy friends. Sometimes she expects gentleness & sometimes expects the same bull to be very rough. Some girls that I had been with wanted some serious spanking, licking, verbal ...... & sometimes a big dildo that would cause them serious pain down under. In the end almost every girl expect a good body massage to end with.
My wife loves the bull to take charge & be very dominating. When she is properly wet she expects the bull to stroke her badly but not at the start.
From a Cuck point of view whatever makes her happy the bull should do.....