My husband and I have been married for 20 years.. Hes been my one and only believe it or not. I wanna spice things up and try something sexy! But I'm so nervous... He fantasizes about me going down on a wet pussy but I wouldn't know how to start. I wanna fulfill his fantasy and secretly mine too. But I also wanna feel another dick make me cum...any suggestions.
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@blk1972 Said be honest with him.
But first things first, talk about his fantasy and also talk about your fantasy, don't make it look like you are trying to make an exchange, just relax set the rules, expectations, probably watch some porn about it, so you can have an idea, talk about likes, dislikes, possible scenarios, places.
Once you have the avobe settled, maeby try to go out as a couple, try on a crowded are to pick possible candidates both male female, try to see what are you both looking for and find some common ground.
The next part should be searching on this forum or probably swinger clubs, for the perfect match, bear in mind that you already talked about it and set some common rules.
Last but not least have fun and always keep in mind and also in the mind of your guest, that the third person is just a guest in your room and you make the rules.