I know exactly how you feel my wife was raped 4 times while she was in basic training when she joined the army, she was only 17 and still a virgin, when she told me what happened to her and when we talked about it I got extremely hard, i was in the army at the same time and I know things like that went on, she's told me about other situations that happened after she left basic training and was at her first school, some of the sex she had she consented to but at other times she was forced, this all happened in her early years in the army, I met her when she was 30 and by then she had been through several men.